Never Sarged online before and was gonna try POF. Just curious about your experiences on that site. Any info would be Awesome.

i had a six month relationship with a girl i met on there, turned out to be a total nutcase, was totally paranoid, went through my stuff, accused me of everything and punched me in the face twice.

Dont mean to put you off mind

It's very easy to hook up with girls on POF... the most important thing to take care of are your pictures, have a few of them doing sports, being active, with friends, doing something cool (playing sports or whatever) and they should not look like you posed for the picture but natural. Have the best pictures you can, look the best you can, then girls will agree to meet with you. use the chat option too its great.

Realize that there are a ton of guys on there looking to score and women are bombarded with IM requests and e-mails. I think it was said on here elsewhere that the online thing should only be a supplement to the real sarging effort. That said, you can try lots of stuff on there without fear of getting bitch slapped, etc. You can change up your profile anytime you want, etc. Just don't sit back behind a computer and start spending all your time on it. I wouldn't put more than 10% effort into any online stuff. Get out into the world, as there is no substitute for real people right in front of you live fire.

Just as a warning online is a lot harder than the real world. I am still in the process of getting it right myself. Don't get discouraged though, Rome wasn't built in a day.

Here is my advice:
-only msg girls when they are online, if you msg them and they are offline, chances are your msg will get lost in a sea of other messages
-persistence is everything, but if she tells you to fuck off, fuck off! I've had girls ignore me only to open up to me after a 2nd or even 3rd go around msg (one girl even said "I was waiting for you to come around!")
-give them a reason to want to talk to you. Offer them something funny, something mysterious, perhaps an escape from the day-to-day mundacity that is life. I find humorous messages are almost guaranteed a response, particularly if it incorporates something in their profile to personalize things and not come off as a cut-and-paste job you sent to a dozen other girls that night
-take nothing personal! Same goes for offline. The guys who have the most success with women use a shotgun approach and don't get bogged down by rejection, they simply move onto the next. POF girls can be the most finicky, and then there are some who seem to have 0 standards at all. Treat it as a game (separate yourself from outcome, and see it literally as a video game of sorts, a way to fine tune your approach). It's ALL a game anyway!
-while pictures are nice, make sure you have a good About Me section that offers intrigue and mystery. Show some of your finer personality attributes in it, but think of the type of girl you are trying to attract and what may draw her to you in your profile description.

Good God where do u get this beeswax from?

Well its been pretty successful. Might just be my area. 3 f-closes. 2 of them know each other and don't care. They all seem to have confidence issues

damn, what area do you live in? might be i need to move down there.