I'll try make this as short as possible.

My biggest insecurity has to do with the fact that I know I'm loving.
I have a girlfriend who perfect and is crazy about me - comes to pick me up from work at midnight when she was getting ready for bed, told me she wants to get married one day, loves my cum in her mouth (i know it's blunt, but I guess it's proof she wants me sexually as well), respects my time to hang out with friends.

But basically I feel like she will leave me, because I show her that I love her lots (sleep while hugging her close, tell her how much she means to me, behave sexually aggressive when I want her, enjoy making time to see her).

This is based on my perception that girls don't want nice guys who always show how much they love them. I can try and hide it, but it's seriously just in my nature to treat her like my girl who I want to protect and love. It's very hard for me to act aloof all the time and act like I don't care.

My insecurity is based on the idea that girls don't like nice guys, and are attracted to guys who don't care. So hypothetically, when an attractive bad boy comes along and hits on her everyday, she will eventually crack and sleep with him, because she is a girl and all girls crave a guy who they have to "chase" as they are evolutionary hardwired to.



Note: -We have been dating already for a year.
- We have awesome sex over 3 times a week (and we don't even see each other more than that).
- She talks about me all the time and often initiates sex.



My question: Although things are good now, is my loving nature a tragic flaw which will decrease her attraction? Am I too nice by nature? Does she subconsciously want a guy who is the opposite of me, or am I just insecure about something which isn't an issue?

Thanks heaps

Dude, you have absolutely nothing to worry about. You two are obviously in love with each other; Congratulations, vast amount of people would give anything to find what you two seem to have. It's natural for you to be afraid of a chance of losing her, but in all honesty, women adore and want the type of man for a LTR that is able show and prove their love to them and is there to protect them. Unless you are acting clingy (which doesn't seem to be the case) you have no problem.

The women falling for bad boys is a myth to an extend, for a one-night-stander a lot of girls go for excitement, but emotionally stable and confident girls know well enough to stay away from certain types when it comes to LTRs.

Keep doing what you're doing. If anything, you can try to keep it fresh and spontaneous, but remember that she obviously loves you as you are and has chosen you as her partner.

Every woman has the desire at one time or another to fuck the bad boy.

MY goal is to find those women each time I sarge.


Women will pre-select for an LTR, they'll ahve their mental checklists just like men do... I don't WANT to be considered for an LTR. I WANT to be that "bad decision they made that one night". I'm good with that - it's my goal.

So it's all frame of mind, and opportunity. It's the human condition my man - simply chill and embrace it. Your chick has the same desires you do. If you trust her, and trust yourself - what do you really have to worry about?

RR

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