Hi everyone,

I'll shortly explain the situation where I could need some help on..Thx in advance for reading.

I'm 25, a photographer, living in europe right now and I met this asian girl a while ago, lets call her Kim.

Kim was in a relationship when I met her, but a bad one (heard this fom her friends, not from herself, as I never wanted to talk about it with her).

I worked a few times with Kim, delivered her great pictures. She gave me ioi's while she was in that relationship/breakup by asking what my family would say if I would have an asian gf etc. She saw me with many other girls, getting so jealous (great!). When I brought her to her place, she was sitting for about 10 mins in my car, should've made-out I know! But she wasnt single back then.. I couldn't.

Now, we've been out many times, she calls me weekly, for drinks/dinner etc. Last time we went for dinner, she said 'I've never told you this before but I left my ex, I never opened this convo with you but now you know'. Later that evening I was getting many text messages from other girls and I saw she was getting bugged by it and she said 'pff are you gonna keep on texting with other people, just like my ex did?!'

Her bday is in 1,5 months and I don't know what I should do. I don't think I'm friends zoned, I can work myself out as I see her from time to time on events where I know many women. I can get her jealous, but I need some advice on this one.

Share your comments/experiences I'd say, cheers!

What are your goals with this girl? Just get a lay, potential girlfriend? It's hard to give advice when I don't know where you want it to go.

She's obviously in quite a vulnerable position after splitting from her ex. She's craving attention. She has gone through a long relationship obviously not feeling wanted, and then she carries on not to feel wanted by you.

Have a think of what you want to gain from this girl. But be careful, don't lead her on. If you don't want a relationship with her, make it clear that it's just a bit of fun, and how you enjoy her company but don't want to commit.

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You don't want advice. You want a pat on the back.

She's into you. Great. Fuck her.


Rule of thumb: If she's married - she's off limits, unless SHE approaches me. If she has a BF, BIG FUCKING DEAL. If she has a finacne', Big Fucking Deal. If I can game a chick that 'says' she has a BF, then the BF isn't that fucking important to her, is he? MOST of the time in nightgame - the BF is a shit-test. In this case, he was merely an obstacle. Step over the asshole and continue walking...

RR



also: If a chick EVER tells me I'm doing something her Ex did, I clip that shit immediately. "You know... I'm not your ex, I don't deserve to be compared to him, nor blamed for stupid shit HE did. Upgrade your expectations. I'm not him. I'm a grown-ass man - not a boy". Then YOU regain control, and also set a ground rule (and if done properly, some chicks really dig the dominant man - but that's a whole 'nother fetish conversation...).

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

My goals.. I never saw her as a potential gf but after what we all been through I really think on getting further with her. Shes clever, attractive, .. Why wouldn't I, been single for a long while now. I just dont know how to finish the deal lets say

And yes she's vulnerable, started going out with her girl friends, living the good life as she says.. she's down, feeling crappy she says..told me this twice this week. I wanna meet up but how should I finish this, any help is welcome btw.

Thx so far guys

Invite her over to your place to hang out. When she's there, show her around and leave. Get coffee, whatever... take pics, walk int he park... whatever... Then bring her back to your place (she's 'safe' now in her mind). Show her something on the computer, your portfolio, pics of her you've taken she may have not seen... whatever... then kino escalate and fuck her.

What you do after that is up to you.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

The problem is, I dont live alone, neither does she. But theres this event friday, I heard from her friends that she'll be attending it as well. I will be there too and I know many other people will too, that includes other women. I can get her jealous there with all the women, and she'll be wanting my attention but I don't wanna make it easy for her. Any tips on getting her out of a crowd and getting the job done. I don't know what I should tell her, or do.. I can get her somewhere private for 5 mins

So what? I lease my second bedroom to a woman.

I go in my room, run game there...

It's only an issue if YOU make it an issue.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

What does her being Asian have anything to do with your situation?