hi guys

when i first saw mystery on the pick up artist i was shocked that attraction can be learned, it made me excited coz i was lonely and akward with ppl 4 a looong time ,, all i wanted is 2 change from introverted into extroverted

since then I've been reading about pick up and social skills,, unfortunately in reality few things has changed :\

i read many articles and books, i watched many vids BUT when i met ppl i lose focus and i start 2 act subconsciously ,, & many times i don't know what 2 say or how 2 respond so i get silent ,,which make ppl bored and me at the same time,,

anyway

i'm glad i found this forum

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Welcome to the forum! Remember no one really just takes off running with this stuff at first like Mystery. Just focus on one part of your game at a time. At first it may just be going into a club to get use to the noise and the people. Then it may be approaching and only worrying about that. Then it may be transitioning, or just having a conversation for a few mintues. Take it in small bite sized chunks at first that you can do...

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thnx JSmooth and im looking forward 2 improve my game

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"you're responsible for how ppl views your character"