So basicly I was out with this HB7,things were going alright, but she had a little bit too much to drink,so we went to a more quiet place(we were at a party till then).

There she layed down into my lap,rested on me,and she took my hand and put it on her right away.After some time when she got a little better , we went to some charity concert , where we were for some time,but we decided to leave.

After that we decided to go somewhere,so she sugested that we go to the park.So we went there,we were siting there , she snugled up to me,,,I kino escalated,and we stayed there for some time,teased each other and so on.After that she had to leave,and I walked with her to the place where a friend of her was going to pick her up.

Problem is,,, I failed to k-close ,,,and kinda feel stupid about it,,,is it a bad thing I failed to k-close,considering she was kinda drunk(she wouldnt probably remember us kissing this way) ? I mean is a sloppy/bad k-close,better then no k-close at all?

Also this girl is kinda bitchy,from what I heared ,so I dont expect a relathionship with her,just to mess around with her and hook up.

My question is, there is this other girl, who isnt as hot as her, but I could date her,and get a relathionship with her (this other girl has gf potential),and as there is another concert coming up,,,,should I take the potential gf with me,,,or the HB7 ? (note that the HB is definitely going to be there.)

What would you guys do in this situation,,,should I take the HB w/ me , hook up with her, and then date the gf potential or what ?

This is my first post, so sorry if I forgot to mention anything important,,and sry for any grammar mistakes.

Firstly i think that from what you've said about the HB7 you should have tried to k-close. She seemed really keen from what you were saying, but then again, she was drunk and you said she was sloppy. If she ever confronted you about not kissing her you could even say that: 'You were really sloppy that night and it wasn't so attractive'

Secondly its difficult to say with regards to the concert as i don't know anything about this potential other girl. If you really think shes girlfriend material, then you could ask her to go with you. However, i don't know how well you know her, and how well you've gamed her. I say this because the last thing you want to do is ask out a girl and her to say no, that will put you more than a few steps back.

So in conclusion i think that if you think the potential gf will say yes then i would take her, a concert would be a good place to kino escalate and start building rapport. However if you don't know her too well yet then start to game her, but take the other girl. There's no harm in this girl knowing that other girls are wanting to go on dates with you.

Yeah I know I should have k-closed,,,but theres nothing to do about it now.
And yeah, she did ask me if we made out,,,on wich I replied exactly what you said ;P
:'You were really sloppy that night and it wasn't so attractive'

On wich she responded with something like "THAAANNK GODDD "(wich Im guesing is some shity test ?)

I stayed calm, and asnwered her something like "Yeah, next time I will have to drink a lot more, so you look attractive enough ".

From there on she stoped with any other shit tests right away,,,and we carried on as normal.

Also, yeah I think I will take the HB to the concert with me, and try to build more attraction with the potential gf before geting a date, since we only had some minor kino(huging, touching)

But I was wondering,,, Wich girl did you mean,,,the potential gf,,or the HB ?

Thanks for the reply, Crix.

I mean there's no harm in the girl you potentially want as a girlfriend knowing that other girls are into you, i think mystery calls in pre-selection. But basically women find men more attractive if they are with attractive women.

And if your worried about going for a k-close, remember, no women is going to hold it against you, the worst that could happen is they say 'no, sorry', you take a few steps back and continue the process. Whereas if they want you to kiss them and you don't, after a while they will lose interest as they will assume you are no longer interested.

Thanks for the advice and insight.

Crix