Im in college and I k closed this chick at a kickback. All of my friends were trying to get her but I was the only one she was feeling. It was really obvious she wanted me because of the heavy kino so I just said fuck it and kissed her. As we were leaving she pulled me into the hallway and started making out with me. I tried to escalate but she pushed me off. I said to stop teasing me and she said then text me and I wont tease you. I got her number and figured fuck it we had pretty good rapport might as well text her without waiting a day. I also added her on Facebook. She never texted back or added me. What do you think happened. And what should I do next?[/list]

It's difficult to say. I mean there are millions, if not billions of reasons.

How did you get her Facebook? If you just searched for her, then sent a request out of nowhere, it could've creeped her. Just one that crossed my mind after reading your post.


You don't give us much to go on.


You need to text her, if she doesn't text you back ever. I'd wait a week at the least.

I did text. It was a dumb message because I forgot to put my number in her phone or text her that night to avoid the who's this. I said "hey its name" and received no reply. I'm just looking for when to do something and what should I do next.

So I figured out what happened lol. And its a very difficult situation. One of my friends is suspected of stealing something from one of the owners of the house, who happens to be friends with the girl. The kid knows I didn't take it and were cool, but the chick isn't messing with me. Is there any way to salvage this situation?

I might send another text just saying how you had nothing to do with the stealing or whatever. But say it in a haha sorry for the mixup type of attitude. Then ask her if she wants to meet up. Don't just say "want to meet up?" though. Have a plan, something along the lines of wanna grab a bite to eat thursday afternoon at x restaurant. Or whatever you feel comfortable doing on a first date.

Thats what I would do anyways and if that fails, Plenty more out there!

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boy o boy, arent you needy? you might want her but you dont need her..stop putting her up on a pedestal. Relax pal, she is not worth the grand chase your trying to pull off..she is testing you, dont text her, wait until she texts/call/approach you..meanwhile..go chase other chicks..

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So how R u feeling right now?

She might be sweet and yes there was a confusion, but your best bet is to invite her somewhere like Osiris said and if she doesn't reply or pitch up then you need to move along...

If you follow Osiris his advice I was thinking of sending a playfull "hey, just so you know I didn't had anything to do with that. I might be a bad boy, just not that kinda bad boy. "

I think you will hook her with that one!

AGREED !

But remember if she doesnt bite, cut the line and move on...