I'm currently in a long distance 'thing' with a HB9, I've recently punished some shit-testy behaviour with a ~week long freezeout. I'm looking to send a text to enunciate the ending of the freezeout, what would you guys recommend?

The girl is obviously quite into me, she demands a lot of attention when I'm around her etc. Her problem being her aforementioned desire for power (very high-value), which includes quite a lot of shit-testing. She's previously broken up with guys for being too needy, which basically means to me that they played up to her constant shit-testing.

The long distance thing is due to college, can't really be helped until summer break, but trying to juggle this one is a little bit of a challenge for someone who's very much into physical body-language game. Let me know your thoughts.

I'd send a random/funny and act as though the world's a perfect place.

Cocky, and thoroughly happy - that's the vibe I'd want to send.

RR

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Thanks, I appreciate your feedback. But no acknowledgement of the emotional/sexual connection?

Why? If you're telling her you froze her out, you've defeated the purpose. The risk/reward has to be there for me to consider a freeze-out.

If being non-responsive is the goal, then you're punishing her alread - especially if she's mentioned it. Simply end the punishment and see if her behavior has corrected itself - if not, freeze out more or shitcan her.

Define your goals. I'm not sure what they are, sorry dude.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

u guys talk alot when she's not froze out?

Always my approach.

You could say so, daily-bidaily for about 20-30 minutes. Long distance.
Care to give a field-tested example? Would be very much appreciated.

edit: I may have read that wrong...

OK...

My random funny text -

"Hey, wanna help me rob a bank?"

no matter what she replies - you send

"Seriously, I need an accomplice - you driving or shooting?"

Then you can steer the conversation sexually, or keep role playing... Always give an avenue of escape with any scenario, and always give an avenue to go sexual.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

That's great, and fits my game style like a glove. Thanks.

I wish I'd been able to read this earlier, I went for a little joke I always use, 'I like using Latin phrases when speaking in English and vice versa', which is pretty silly after a week of not talking to your 'thing'. She replied, an hour later in her usual shit-testy style, saying it was excellent and that she'd laughed out loud.

She then goes on to ask me how I am, pretty boring, but she probably wants some sort of update on my life, oh well. I presume the idea here is that my life is 'exciting' and great, despite the fact I'm in exam period right now, haha..

Another of my favorites.... when asked what I'm doing - always make it 'awesome' (Thanks Barney Stinson)....

When asked what I'm doing... "I just made a conference call my bitch"

So you: "I just made XXXXX exam my bitch - bring on tomorrow baby!"

You don't want to be the uber-positive Enzyte idiot... you want to be the smart, edgy, successful man who can still play when it's time to be serious...

Build the painting she wants to see... then fuck her while she stares at it...

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.