Guys i turn to you i a time of need ive been in to this girl since first grad and i finally decided its time to make a move im 18 now and shes 19 a coupl of mounths older she does know i liked her in the junior school and recently i had contact with her but since school finished i have had no contact with her so my questions are

1. Do i text her to ask er out and then ask her to prom or date
2. should i ask her out face to face if so how would i set up a meeting with her so i could do it

Hey! I'm no master, but I can tell you what I think you should do. Go up to her in school and if she's with friends just step in and ask if you can borrow her for a moment.
The most important thing is to just get her to talk to you one on one. When you're talking with her, just be yourself, that's important. You SHOULD be as confident as you can be, though, but don't try and be cocky or a bad guy if you're not like that. Just show her you're confident with yourself and ask her!

Of course this can be scary, so texting can always be worth a shot, but I think the first option will definitely surprise her and flatter her way more, I assume! Not knowing the girl, obviously, but I think that's what most girls prefer.

Good luck and let me know how it works out.

Your first problem is that you say you're in love with her..

Fuck. That. Shit.

No, it ain't. How is love wrong in any situation? Your goal might be to score as many girls as possible, maybe not! But if his motive for using these techniques is to reach out to someone he's in love with, then why the heck not?

Im laughing so hard right now. Loved this. So fucking funny.

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Dear OP,

You just made a problem. You should first overcome your one-itis to successfuly open to her set. First, go up to her friends and show DHV. it is hard for you to neg her but it is important. Also, when you have successfuly isolated her, be sure to be relaxed. Being nervous ain't gonna help you. It will hard for you to focus on gaming her because you are a little bit emotionally attached to her. Fix that attachment and work on you body language, this will convey that you are an alpha male and she is lucky to have met a such dominant man. If you have done this correctly, you have turned on 2 or more attraction switches. By that time, you can set-up a frame that says "you could be a great friend". This will make her invest on you because she sees you not only as a friend but a potential mate. Ciao and goodluck

thx foe thr response i thought of all this but i needed to hear these things from somone else not related to me in eny way i want to do it face to face to show my confidence but the problem is i dont see her at all so what im asking is how do i text her so that i can arrenge a meeting and ask her face to face

the love part is somthing i have no control over and i knoe i cant let her know the fullextent of my feelings cuse it will turn her off and i wish i could enter a fuck that shit mode but its somthing i have no control of

Don't give up. You have more control of your mind than you think. Just stay focused on your goals and how you want to feel.

Dude, you haven't said that you got her number. anyways, you can come up with something like, "hey, my dog needs flossing, do you mind if you could hold her while i floss her teeth?" She will reply something like "what?! i dont wanna :/" That's an opener. You could change the topic into meeting her because there is something you wanna give her. if she becomes curious, say that it is something she will never forget. then arrange a meeting, it could take place in a somewhat noisy area or not-so-romantic area. tell me if she complies with your request and ill give you more advice. it is a little bit C&F but it defenitely works for teens.

^^^^

This.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

By the way, for the newbs that aren't "in love".... DON'T be a pussy. Don't fucking text or phone to ask a chick out that you see all the time - it's an AFC move. GO TO HER in person. Text leads to phone leads to face-to-face.

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

i can easly get her number and like i said we are not in school eny more we finished so thats the problem i cant run in to her enywhere

Then why are you asking? CALL HER!

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

You can be in love with her man just don't let it pysche you out or act dumb. I like this because girls like romance and all that notebook shit. I would say do in person or on the phone. Texting is no good because you can't see how the other person is reacting so much...you can't hear their voice and see their body language. I would say in person, but if you get too nervous doing it on the phone can work because you can hide your nervousness and you can have a script you can look at while you are talking. Its just that in person seems more smooth and manly.

When you do ask her out...you don't want to "spill your guts." I mean you don't want to suddenly just tell her "I love you and I have loved you since first grade and I tihink about you everynight and I want to marry you and sleeping with you would be the greatest experience that I could ever have in life"...lmao, don't say that. However, there is nothing wrong with saying that at the right time, and the right times is when she is going to be comfortable hearing it. Your whole goal is for her to like what you are doing. You hear alot about different stuff, but at the heart of things a PUA deals in minds and emotions. ...

Now get off this computer champ and go make this girl love you like you love her.

k so i finally droped some balls and talked to her on facebook so this is how it went down


Me:hey

Target hii

Me: how did you go on politics

Target: emm unit 3 was ok i think i did well, unit 4 , i found it difficult so i dnt know;/ u??

Me it was good uni4 could have been better

Target haha;p anw we will talk tmr cause i have to go to school in the morning;p bb xx

Me cool

so i dont think that whent well