if its not to personal to ask, what did you say exactly while toasted?

It was not something bad but it was not the same frame I was shown for her as myself.
The thing is that tonight she wasn't completely responsive as she was the other day.She was smiling and answering my questions but didn't ask me back etc...
Maybe I am sensitive and It could be the pressure of being with each other in my room since the other time there were a bunch of people around us.

I was in a similar position to op before with my flat mate.

I had proper oneitis for her. We ended up kissing on 3 occasions after drunken nights out and came so close to sex and I suddenly had a realisation and told her she should probably go to her room.

After that night (and the awkward mornings, becuase trust me the mornings ARE awkward, especially when there is 4 other girls living here too and you walk in to the kitchen and they all go silent, obviously talking about you ha) I stopped having any feelings towards her.

When you live with her you will see all her bad points and trust me there will be loads. I'd go as far as saying I really dislike her now after living with her almost a year. Messy, annoying, loud, BORING, Always moaning. Man I'm glad nothing happened.

Trust me, It gets easier. I'd say don't go there. There is plenty more. Just use her for social proof when you go on nights out.

Thank you for your help. Honestly, we don't see each other during week, we have different schedule and I've been trying to ignore her but it's impossible.She is the type of girl I've been looking for a long time.
Tonight she came back home around 11pm .I think I should make a bigger move and make myself clear, I don't know...
It's not a good feeling waiting for somebody at home.If it doesn't work out for me, I think I need to find another place.
I know that the other guy is exploiting her situation because of not having any one. Probably since last week, they spent like 15 hours.
Guys,considering the situation should I make myself more available or less available and wait for Saturday night? need help!

can you list 10 good things about yourself that this girl does not know?

can make yourself more clear? what's your point?

The question is straightforward. I ask because I wonder whether you are putting your best foot forward. You have constant contact with this girl and you can talk to her every day...what are you talking to her about?

I didn't have the chance.Since last weekend I just talked to her for like 10 mins last night.She is shy and always in her room and usually I come back home like 9pm.
Since I got her number last night, I just sent a short text today and asked about something she was working on and she answered.
I didn't want to look creepy and needy after getting her number.
I thought by being less available she could be more attached.Since we live in same house .Now I think I am wrong and maybe I should make myself more available ? is that what you are saying?

I am trying to help you with what you are going to talk about when you do talk to her. What types of stories are you going to tell? You want to convey some good things about yourself with your stories.

If you want her to chase you, you have to make a good impression.

So guys,
Unfortunately she came back home around 2:30 in the morning tonight.Even texting in the morning to get her attention didn't work.
I am kinda depressed now and I think I have to move out. I missed my chance that day.I did bad job at the end of the that night and I am regretting now.
Guys, I don't want to brag just let you know the situation I am good looking and in shape and girls always tell me I am attractive.But my game isn't great.
My question is:
Do I have any chance(even for one s*x) if I tell her in person I like her and tell what my real feeling about her ? has anybody tried it and got anywhere?
Since I know some of my actions ran her away.
It sounds quite AFC but I can't help showing my feeling to her.
She is kind and young and young girls are usually emotional.I may have a chance since I never show my true feeling to her.I know she was sexually attracted to me.

Hi kamikazy. I don't know you or the girl, so I'm only basing my opinion based on your posts. The tone of your posts comes off as very needy (and AFC). I don't say this in an offensive way; it's just what I'm picking up from your posts. You're very focused on her and I can sense it all the way from across a computer screen; this is not good. I've acted the same way before and it's always been very obvious to the girl. What I'm guessing is that she sensed your neediness and was put off by it. Since you said she's a nice girl, she probably doesn't want to tell you directly that she's not interested. From what you've said in your posts about what's happened between you two, it doesn't sound like she's interested. Please bear in mind that this is what I'm picking up from your posts only. I haven't seen you two interact so I could be wrong.

As an example of the neediness though, you were paying very close attention to when she gets home and sound jealous regarding the other guy. In your words, "I know that the other guy is exploiting her situation because of not having any one. Probably since last week, they spent like 15 hours." Now I apologize if I'm just misinterpreting your English, but if the girl is dating this guy like you said, I don't think it's fair to say that he's "exploiting" her. You're coming off very jealous in your posts and if that's the case, you're probably coming off that way in real life and, more importantly, in front of her.

Instead of waiting for her to come home and planning all these things for her, you should be going out there and having fun for your own enjoyment. Maybe bring friends (especially girls) to your place so that she sees how fun you are. You should have been focusing on yourself and your activities so she sees that you value yourself more than anyone else. This is what Game24/7 was trying to tell you when he asked you to list 10 things that were good about you. Right now you're chasing her. Instead, you should show her how valuable you are so she chases you.

On the other hand, I agree with devi4nt. Starting relationships with roommates is rarely a good idea. Be prepared for a lot of awkwardness if this moves forward.

Flynn, everything you said is right.FYI, I cam home around 1:30 am.She came after me.But the whole time I was thinking of her.
I hate my situation. I am jealous and feel weak.she is so attractive for me physically and personally.It's like a prefect girl for me.
I know she was interested in me from the way she was looking at me when I was speaking to her or walking just with me and ignoring others. It was so obvious and I know after 1 week she is not interested in me now just because of my actions.
I know she is sexually interested, even when she came to my room she was wearing her underwear.
The problem is that I didn't have a chance to talk to her and since we didn't talk I don't think I can go out with her this weekend.I want to know how I can make her interested in me emotionally if there is a way.There should be a smart way to regain my position.

My only suggestion right now would be to "ignore" her. This doesn't mean completely. If you run into her at the house and she says "hi," you should say hi back, but keep communication minimal. Focus on yourself. Let her see that you value yourself. Don't let her see or feel that you're chasing her. Go out and have fun and look busy.

This may sound weird, but can I ask what city you and this girl live in right now? I ask because girls in different parts of the world can act differently and it will help me to figure out why the girl is acting the way she is.

what are trying to give yourself some false hope? She's 22yrs old of course she's getting fucked he's just sending her home early and going to see his other hoe/s.

I found foreign girls aren't too smart when it comes to dealing with american men, at least in the beginning when they 1st move here, its very easy to play them and have multiple women on the side they suspect nothing. It probably won't last long. Since you're living together thread lightly. because if you get rejected its going to be very awkward living together.

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@Flynn:I'd prefer not to say now.Maybe latter... I thought there was no sex. After like 10 days, she came home late last tonight.She probably was getting fucked last night.
And you are right about gaming her.She is easy to be gamed and I blew it although some factors were out of my control because fo living with her and I don't think that guy gives up on her since she is an easy good catch.
I don't want to accept facts but they seem to be true.
Well, I am thinking of moving out since it's like constant torture living with her so I don't mind getting rejected.She is here just for summer.
she probably knows I like her by now.But I didn't tell her directly.Could it be helpful to tell her or not at all?