Inner game is where its all at.

With right attitude, comes right tone of voice, right look, right pick up line and right life style.

Spend time developing yourself. Answer the quesiton of life: Who you are and what difference you make in this place? Whats the difference between you and every other man? Sooner or later you gotta ask yourself these quesitons.I see bad ass puas getting depressed after few years in the game. They knmow all the technique but that is NOT enough! Not even close to enough.

In order to keep quality women around, you must be quality yourself.

Be fun, cool, friendly, get a fun job and make $. Get this done then you come with with your own M3 model.

Peace to the east, west and pussy.

You are right, but for people starting out, it's the pua techniques that help develop their inner game. You can also do it by your suggestions, basically to find your self identity and build upon it in order to develop a strong core (inner game) but the common man in western society does not do that unfortunately.

You need both inner game and outer game(field experience)...Why does one has to be exclusive of the other, everything counts... I really recommend Psycho-cybernetics for inner game...

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Adapt game to you, not the other way around.

You found a system that works for you? Cool, stop telling everyone else your way is the only way.

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I agree with what you are saying except one part, you can be broke as shit with nothing going for you and still rule inner game and there by be an amazing seducer. The key is to have aspirations, to work for something, if a girl sees you at a stagnant point in your life she is likely to lose interest, but if she sees that you have aspiration she will be intrigued. Having $$$ now is not so important but striving for them is, unless you have an even greater dream in your mind.

My point is, have aspirations, have goals, that will make you a motivated and interesting person!

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Damn Chief closed my thread. Lame.

I'll just do random updates.

I had some pretty fine chicks at the mall eye locking me for a couple of seconds. I was too much of a bitch to just open. Direct opener is my swag if they're eye locking, feel me. 8's and 9's were donig this, i pussed out.

I got a 6's number today @ the mall. (Butterface, had sexy booty shorts) Just 1 number. I'ma take baby steps. Next time... 2-3 #'s. Holla @ me.

#ChiefUnlockMyThreadPlease

I actually recommend both improving yourself and your lifestyle at the same time as attempting to pick up women. You will be learning social calibration simultaneously as you focus on improving your lifestyle in general.

Having a great lifestyle + being successful in other areas of life does not = getting laid. You can be all of those successful things, but still be a miserable virgin at the age of 40.

Understanding social situations and how people work is a whole other field of success, even though it shares similar patterns of success as other areas in life.

Save yourself the longer path and work on doing both things at the same time, it's not rocket science.

exactly.

dude, what you're basically saying is thet pu will not make you happy. that is true, but it a "no-duh" kind of statement. money also will not make happy. no single thing can make a man happy. but it's better to have these things than not. likewise with pu stuff. a balanced and fulfilled life is key to hapiness.

but it's like you said, one aspect alone is not enough. however, may i point out that having all the stuff you mentioned WILL NOT make you automatically an expert at picking up women? this stuff has to be learned, and it pays off.

You're definitely right man, but your icon and name are a bit off color.

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There's a lot of guys like that. They have good jobs, good friends, lots of interests and activities they're involved in, etc... but never learned the manner in dealing with women that leads to something sexual. They're usually not miserable though.

They believe the reason they can't get laid is they don't try hard enough. So like with any hobby, they learn all they can and keep trying. But unlike a hobby, they find pick-up is only the tip of the iceberg of a whole kind of lifestyle they've missed out on. That getting laid honestly, consistantly, and naturally will require major changes on a core personal level.

So you end up with a guy who's had a lifestyle that's been working for him for years, but now he has to change, often to an end which he can't see or understand. NOW, he is miserable. NOW, his inner game sucks. But would going back to the way he was be an improvement??

If we're still talking about 40 year old virgins that are successful in other areas of life but simply not seduction - then it's doubtful that the ^above is the reason for why they think they don't get laid. When they're half way into their lives they KNOW they've tried hard. They know they've attempted to understand that part of life and apply it. However, they failed despite that. They're doing something wrong and they know it.
Are you saying that becoming successful in, say business, doesn't require core personality changes sooner or later in order to achieve it? No core qualities are inborn. We constantly evolve and we constantly experience change. This is nothing new to ^those guys either.
If he cries about 'having to change' - his inner game was horrible right from the start and he was most probably secretively miserable from the beginning. It was just a matter of time before he discovered it.

Hobbit made an interesting reference to the FB Wonder Boy. It makes me think . . . anytime an investment group sits in a boardroom filled with pimple faced 20 year olds, the older guys are always thinking the same thing: "So what else do these guys have on their minds other than wanting to fuck?" The "wanting to fuck" is obvious since everybody is or once was a 20 year old. "What else do they have in mind," is not as obvious because there's usually a warm layer of BS in between "Wanting to Fuck" and "Everything Else".

In demonstrating "Everything Else", it is important that you can show daily habits that can lead to success. This is what they're looking for. Why? Because "Being Somebody" or "Being Nobody" is nothing but a sum of daily habits. It's not at all important that you've already arrived at age 20. That would in fact be an anomaly wouldn't it?

Among people who have good daily habits, the only thing that separates those who succeed and those who did not yet succeed is time. Like good investors, women seem to have a radar for this. . . and it's not a cognitive calculation but rather an 'emotional feeling'. Yeah . . . I'm telling you that THIS TURNS THEM ON. Even in the boardroom, the language used while sealing the deal isn't the ROA's, ROI's, and Exit Strategies. These things are obvious. It's after demonstrating HOW your daily habits(work/task schedule) can achieve those numbers that lead to "This feels right." "These guys are smart." "I've got a good feeling about this." "We've got a winner." "I like it!"

^ That, if you are broke and you show ambition, drive, goals, a vision and she believes in you, it works almost equally as if you already had the $ and the success in the women eyes, 100% correct...

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it's all about perception. you don't have to be successful at her eyes. she has to perceive you has successful.
but yeah it's rather pointless without inner game. it's like trying to write an book without known how to read.
that's why most fail. most people don't understand that.