First of all this never really happens but damm... This girl know texted me randomly at 2 am that she now has a bf. But this one time it seems to have gotten under my skin. In the past she has lied about it to me and she admited it soon after the fact; however, this time she seems to be sticking with the story. She wouldnt tell me anything about the guy or who it is expect that he makes her happy and the last text read "Why do yuo keep on asking about him or the details. I thought we're just friends. Are you mad or upset" Now me and her have kissed been over at each others place ect we also normally used to chat/call/text all the time. But that has seemed to stop. My question is should i go confront her about it in person since she says she will give me five mins to talk about it (its easy to lie/hide emotions over the phone)? Or do you feel its a lost cost and I need to drop it and move on?

(if you need anymore info on the matter do ask)

She's in complete control and knows it. In addition she has little to no respect for you, confronting her will only re-affirm that she has the upper-hand. Give you FIVE minutes? Wow, ok thanks Ms. Warden. Kick rocks ho! (is how I'd respond).


Go find other women, there are plenty out there to choose from who aren't into headgames.

Life gets what you ask of it; if you ask for shit that's what you'll get. Start wanting better for yourself, and that starts with working on YOU.

thats what I normally believe and thats what I would normally do tell her to go ..... herself. But my coworkers and friends are like you should at least go hear her out the worst that can happen is nothing and you lose time but you'll get the answere.

Go if you simply want to get closure, don't go if you're doing it for the chance of 'winning' her over.

What would you confront her about? This is a girl you aren't dating, aren't hooking up with. Game other girls, and be friends with her if you want to be her friend, or leave her alone if your only interest was getting into her pants.

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Yea I'm going to the suggested advice drop her and move on thanks

You're hung-up over her because you have no other option. You've got no context, much like the thirsty man in the desert who savors the droplet of water, not knowing if and when he'll get another drink.

There's obviously some attraction she has to you. Whether she enjoys tormenting you or whatever... there's some draw in it for her.

I suggest using that against her... Back off for a while - if she starts texting you again, don't EVER ask about some other dude.

Invite her over, and caveman her.

Who knows? You might fuck her. If not, you have no doubt where it goes from there. Drop the bitch and move on...she already has.

RR

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