hey guys,

i was talking to this girl i picked up a few nights ago, only realy got talking to her on FB though so i dont know her too well.. i opened quite well i thought and she responded well, then all of a sudden she said she was in a bad mood and is not the best person to talk to at the moment.. how should i react? is this a IOD? i kept leaving a few mins to repond everytime and she kept adding to the conversation though...here is the conversation via FB.

Me: youll never guess what happened to me last nite?
Her: huh what?
Me: i feel asleep, true story
Her: ....
so?
interesting story . ha
Me: ahh ur no fun at all, thought that woulda got atleast a 'haha' outa yh since u use it in every sentence [:P]
Her: well u kinda need to say something funny for me too ha ha [:D] true story
Me: yeah but i thought it would of atleast got a 'pitty haha' its the polite thing to do

ok ok go on then, YOU say something funny, amuse me . .
Her: sorry not in the mood
Me: true story?
Her: yup in a pisseer sorry

prob not the best person to talk to

haha xx (that look several minutes for her to say all that cos i waited)
Me: alrightey then maybe another time
Me: ttyl

Um...if she's in a bad mood....right. Well it's hard to tell if she was already in a bad mood or if she's now in a bad mood because she met another guy who wasn't dominant enough to get with her.

Things in the game are out of our control. If she's in a bad mood, you move on or you try again like nothing happened. I personally love moving on.

yeah i am unsure on this one, if i kept talking to her than she could be like 'why can't he get the hint? ' sort of thing, i think i will just move on and let her talk to me next if she want to or not.. out of my control really

Generally speaking don't react to it with any supplicating gestures, just leave it be it's not your task to bring her out of it. Some people want to stay justified in their anger and its best to just give them space to come out of it, also you don't want to become her 'therapist' of sorts.

Let her know you aren't going to put up with it by not being available to her if she's going to throw a tantrum. Understand that women will display anger directly to males because we generally don't pickup on subtle emotional cues that women do (so they have to make it clear they are angry). More often than not the woman is calm as shit in her mind, but she's putting on a display to get a guy to REACT; women can deal with tension far greater than men, if you learn how to be OK with the discomfort of tension you will generally come out on top.


IF on the other hand you had offended her with your behavior, in such a case you should own up to it in a confident yet humble manner - don't over apologize for anything, simply own up to it and move on.

thats great advice mate, im just going to leave it now, iv talked to her like 3 times on FB, then that happened, if she wants to talk again all she has to do is type..

I really do not know what you're talking about..

let the girl blow off her steam. You don't want her associating you with negative emotions. Take care.

yeah i think i am overthinking this one