i have a problem.. im always looking for mistakes in what the girl im speaking to says.. and then when i find it, i lose interest in them.. and i always find one, cause no1 is perfect.
lets say i talk to a woman and then i see that she doesnt know english for example (i dont live in an english speaking country, i know english pretty good, but some dont) so i immeditaly thinks shes an idiot and uneducated and lose interest.. or even more extreme example if she has a spelling mistake in something she writes, again same thing.. its fucked up.. or if she says that she believes in god, again immediatly thinks shes an idiot.
how can i stop this destructive behaviour?

Do you worship your mother by any chance?

Well my friend, you sound like the standard elitist atheist, with which comes with a lot of pain and misery in the long run. There is nothing particularly wrong with being atheist, but you need to kill the elitist part, you want some alpha, but not a controlling amount. Also, when one quickly pulls out, it can meet a lack of confidence (or at least for me it use to). Try not to be so picky right off the bat, stay tall, but force yourself to keep pursuing said girl, and not run away. It may take effort, but running away is still cowardice, and whatever reasons are just post-failure justification.