I met a HB8.5 at a friends party the other day. She is really nice, and added me to facebook the night we met, however I didn't get her number. I know, I am an rAFC.

I expected to get together with our mutual friends and her for a bar night, but those plans fell through, and I haven't spoken to her in 2 and a half weeks.

Tonight I sent her a Facebook message, "Hey (HB8.5), what's been up with you lately? I had this crazy thing happen to me in Thornhill the other day that reminded me of you"

She replied 2 hours later (at 2:30 am) "Hey (my name)!
How are you? Was it crazy good or crazy bad?"

How should I reply, I basically said the crazy thing happened to get her attention. I am having a birthday party on Friday, and I think it would be a great time to demonstrate high value, as I will be having over 30 friends. I invited her with the facebook invite, but she hasn't responded. Should I bring it up, or wait for her to mention it.


PS. I am talking about a serious road rage incident involving my brother and I that happened near her house a few days ago. The guy tried to run me over with his car, caused an accident, fled the scene, and was arrested. I didn't think about it at the time, but this girl is "sweet", and may not think it was cool that my brother and I participated in road rage.

I would say "crazy good "

She should ask you to tell her about it Tell her that, you will tell her about it when you see her next.

And because you went with crazy good you are going to have to make something up haha! Forget about the road rage incident, don't think she will find it flattering that road rage made you think of her, regardless if the reason is because it was near her house hahaha.

First off just because you pulled an AFC move in this one instance doesn’t define you as an AFC. Everyone can be an AFC at times, even the best. To answer your question I agree with LBot that you should only mention it if she brings it up at the party. Have something to say just after though. She doesn't need to be flattered, if anything say it in a way that doesn't make you seem all that interested in her. So after saying it don't look for a reaction. Say it in a way that makes it seem like she briefly came to mind. If the right body language is correct she will start thinking "why doesn't he like me?"