Hello Everyone,

A little about myself, ok, sure. I'm a 37 year old male from Melbourne, FL. I started out educating myself about "The Game" after pulling myself out of self-inflicted exile from a 9 month marriage (2004) that ended in divorce.

The realization that I had to get some education about this area in my life was after a conversation with my mother. She asked me, "Why do you have such trouble dating women when you have so many beautiful female friends?" Wasn't until that very moment that I truly realized that I was only being successful with getting into what I would later learn was called the "Friend Zone". So I have been at this for about 5-6 years.

I've just recently ended another 2-3 year relationship with a woman that I moved across state to live and build a life with. I would love to say that I don't know what went wrong, but I'm trying to be as honest with myself as I can be, and to be blunt - I KNOW that I am not the Man I need to be yet, to truly find and keep that one exceptional woman.

I'm doing my best with the resources I have available, DeAngelo (Pagan), Covey, Robbins, Xuma, just to name a few. But still feel overwhelmed.

Today as I sit here, the only word I can think of to describe my life - "Disaster".

So here I am, finding the Masters and hoping to re-build my life and to Write A New Book called "My Life"

XtremeInnuendo

Disastrous life your talking an expert here well hope you learned something from them that's the way i look at it , life's always teaching you a lesson. there's lots of stuff on here to improve yourself some good books but the main thing is to get out there and start approaching you have to put what you,ve read into actions your going to get set backs because everyone does believe me work out what works for you and what dosn,t you will be scared at first i know because iam still scared sometimes its a matter of how you view it anyhow good luck