| I went back with my ex, she said she wanted for us to try again, at the same time she confessed that she went back with an ex of her like one week prior to meet me, but the guy is a very jealous individual, and she had enough of him. She said i was the guy for her, blablabla. I told her that she had to cut off him, she said she would do it when the guy comes back (he lives in another town) so i didn't mind and, while with some reserves with her sudden change of mind, i decided to start dating her again. She insisted the guy is a good friend of her sister, and she still considers him a friend (yeah, even after going back to date with him...right) I tell her to grab the phone and just tell him it's over on the phone, but she insists in doing it in person, whatever. I don't mind...at that moment.
Two days later she tells me she started to get threats over her email, and calls to both of her cell phones insulting her. The threats are about how she should stop seeing me, or else she will regret it. This persona knows my name, what i do for a living and so on, but i haven't got a single threat, neither on my email or a phone call. I asked her about any guy that she might had rejected when we split, and she said there was none, i tell her it could be the ex she went back to, and she insists is not him. She knows him of years and the guy, according to her, would never do such a thing.
I ask her to let me enter her email account to see the ip of the emails, she stares at me with a face of shock and tells me there's no need for that, i insist but she remains silence, "you don't trust me?" i ask her. She just says she's too paranoid and not thinking straight, she accuses me of not trusting her. I try to calm her down, tell her she's not alone, that she has my support, that i will try to investigate this, but that she must foward me those emails. Because they certainly involve me too. She remains defensive of the ex, tells me another friend might check her email and that maybe it could be someone from my side. I tell her i haven't gave her info to nobody at all, only two friends know her, and they have no access to her cellphone numbers.
After that things have been turning out to get more and more weird. She has two cell phones, one that only very few people have the number. I tell her that this narrows down the list of suspects. Then yesterday she gets mug and they steal only some money and the cell phone in question, she tells me she has talk about this with only two friends and, vaguely, with her sister. She tells me people broke into the place she works, and that somebody got into her email account. I tell her to cancel her phone numbers and change passwords on email accounts. She gives me two IP adresses, one from the town where we live, but she still won't foward any of the emails they sent to her. She's always too busy at work to do it, or she forgets or something like that. One of the phone numbers that harrased her is some SPAM number. Overall, the more i try to dig into this, the more complicated it gets, and the less helpful she becomes.
Right now i don't know what to think, could it be the ex? Could it be some other guy? Could it be.....her playing some weird game? Too many weird coincidences going on here, and her attitude is just a bit too erratic. She told me she wants for us to keep some distance, so we are just having contact over one phone line.
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