Hey guys,


Like a month ago I added this girl on my Blackberry messenger. I got her pin number from a site (kinda like facebook). She had put her number on a public page on this site so that ppl could add her. Obviously shes looking to meet new guys.

Remember, blackberry messenger is like MSN, so u can see eachothers photos.

So I added her, she accepted me , we didnt talk , until last friday. She started the conversation:

Girl: Hey :$
Me: Hey,

So we had a conversation, i made her laugh a couple times and we talked about age,where we live, hobbies ( we talked about horseriding, which she does).
It was a really good conversation and it just ended with a 'haha'.

3 days after this first conversation, she talked to me again, she sended this message at 10pm on a sunday.

Girl : Hey u live in (place) right? Im in that town , do u wanna hang out with me and my friend (girl)
Boy: Sure
Girl: Do u have ur own place?
Boy: No, but im home alone this week, and i have a car.
Girl: Oke im in the train right now ill be there in 5 minutes.
Boy: I can pick you up from the trainstation but what do u wanna do at this time?
Girl: Are u going to pick us up or not?
Girl : We want to hang out in ur house
Girl: Right??
Girl: Because ur alone right? Honey:$
Boy: Wow, i want to hang out with u so badly, but my little sister is also here with me, so shes at my place 2.
Girl: Doesnt matter right? How old is she
Boy : Shes 13, but when shes here then it will be difficult for us to do whatever we want
Boy: :$
Girl: Please?
Boy: No sorry, i cant
Girl: Then not


Oke. So obviously i missed a big chance here. But seriously i couldnt let my little sister alone at home at that time. (my family isnt here for a week).
I told her this afterwards:

Boy: Hey, i got no plans tomorow until 5pm, u can come and hang out if ur still here by then.
Girl: Im going home tomorow evening.
Girl: Ye could do that.

So didnt hear from her, i didnt want to say anything because i dont want to sound to NEEDY.

Obviously this girl is a little hoe. She never met me, but she doesknow me by picture and i think because of our good conversation she felt a bit comfortable.

She lives in a town thats one hour away by train/car. I want to bang her. My own idea is to wait for a couple days ( until its weekend). Then talk to her, her plans etc. Maybe if she can, i will tell her to come to my town and i will drive her around a bit or something, but the problem is until sunday im just alone with my little sister. So i cant really bring er home when my sister is also home.

BTW about the girl: Shes kinda a 'fuck the world 'girl. Her parents are divorced and she lives with her grandparents.

Sorry if i made mistakes, im Dutch by origin and these conversations were actually in dutch,


So PUA's , how do I get her to f*ck with me or atleast kiss close?

Thank you.

Damn, why the hell didnt you let her come? What does it matter if your little sister is home? You aren't sharing the same room right?

If I were you I should not text her for a while, and hopefully she will text you. Act like she's just one of the 10 girls you have so you don't care if she'll come.

because he doesn't want his little sister walking in on them having a 3some

Have you ever met this girl IRL?

Chatting with a 16yo girl and F-closing her on day1 seems highly unlikely to me even if she seems so much into anything when on the chat.

Google the term statutory rape. Not gonna contribute to this......

Yo man, i live in Holland . the minimum age to have sex is 16 here.

Well she seems like she wanted to do more then just hang out, and if i look at the pictures she puts on her Blackberry messenger, then i think shes kinda horny (also her status updates). I think it would be possible to fclose her on day1 , but with her friend coming 2 it would be more difficult because i dont know her.

I don't know that!

You gotta give us more details.

Have you ever met this girl in real life? At this point I don't even know if she is a real person or someone's just messing with you through chat! Like a 40yo balding fat man


I'm buying my plane ticket to Holland now... Tomorrow I'm F-closing 16yo girls being all stoned Don't worry guys, I will keep the lay report section fed, LOL

Of course you didn't hear from her, that was your que to arrange the meet-up.

How are you going to sound needy to say "I'll pick you up at 2pm" or something similar ?

She said yes and then you just ignored her... thats rude not to reply, not "needy"

I highly doubt this chick is real lol. If so I'm not sure how things are in Holland but in Cali I most definitely wouldn't mess with a "16" year old girl who's trying to sleep with me without even meeting me. IMO you would have to be either extremely desperate or super horny to actually pursue this. This just sounds really sketch.

You really think a 16 year old girl has the maturity to classify you as needy? She's the needy one and two people in need should be banging each other indeed