| I just started using physical game last week, the biggest differences between this and my previous style is:
Really heavy kino (obviously) Talk slower/more pauses Quick escalation
I went out last night in a new town that is really heavily bar oriented rather than club oriented, it was a lot more difficult! Man, I could NOT get out of the entertainer frame last night, it was horrible. Last week, when I implemented physical game is was so dope, seriously I was on fire, the changes I made MURDERED my dancing monkey syndrome, which was my biggest sticking point. Tonight I just need to push through and say 'fuck it' and go physical and escalate even if it doesen't seem right. I think the reason it may not be working as well is because
(A) my energy levels were too high, after my warm up set(s) I need to remember to bring it down. -I NEED to talk slower/pause more. Seriously, this shit made such a huge impact last week.
(B) It seems harder to escalate/get physical in bar enviroment when everyones sitting; this is bullshit though, I just need to get used to it. Instead of a girl standing and being able to wrap my arms around her; I can't do that when shes sitting. So I am going to lead more instead
Oh, I should also mention that my primary goal as of now are ONS.
I did more sets than these, but these are my most note worthy ones
1st set (warm up set, heavily in-state already)
Approached HB8 in bar; i'm not going to bother posting dialog, but my state was TIGHT and I was being super alpha; despite this, she was sitting so I didn't really get physical besides high fives and little stuff. I later began falling into the entertainer frame very subtlely.
solution: I should of made her stand up, tried to lead her around the venue/outside
2nd set
3 girls sitting at bar, went over and told one of them to buy me a drink (role reversal/self-amusement). Two of the girls vibed with me for a bit, I stole one of the girls seats using a Mystery technique, and her friend was like "Oh you think your so smooth!" - I laughed, I thought this was legit funny. The bouncer came over and told me to give her back her seat (LOL). I ejected from set.
Solution: Throughout the set I was just a BIT too cocky, a lot of times i'll overdo it in a playful way but some girls don't pick up on it. I should of tried to isolate one of the girls and talk to her one on one. I JUST realized that when there are multiple girls, it is SO much harder to run my game, because its harder to get really physical/escalate infront of friends (is this just a lack of reference experience for me? Maybe this is just in my head), also I want to lead the conversation so I end up talking a lot more and go into the entertainer frame inadvertently. I ejected pretty early regardless, I still could of stayed in that set longer
3rd set
Met HB6.5 in bar, opened with "Hey, my names Tony". I realized I wasen't leading so early in this set I said I was going to a different bar. This chick was REALLY hyper and friendly, I could feel there was little sexual tension. We left the venue to go to a different bar, I tried to hold her hand but she said she dosen't like being touched much. Maybe this was a cue that I should of ejected instead of investing an entire night with a girl I was already basically friend zoned with. We went to her house, used the bathroom, got in her truck and drove to a bar that was farther away. She gave me her number later, but I am almost certain i'm friend zoned at this point. This set also killed my state because she was so energy and I spent like, 2-3 hours with her that it just drained me.
Anyway, after my state hit the lowest point EVER when sarging. I wasen't demotivated, I was just really tired. I said fuck state, I can pull out of state, I don't want to depend on it... I had the worst blow outs ever, regardless I laughed after each one
1st blowout
(Clawed girl on sidewalk)
HB: What the fuck are you doing? GET THE FUCK OFF ME!!! Theillbehaviored: LOL omg that's the first time anyone ever said that to me, that's so awesome.
It was a good recovery for what it was, but she already walked away. This is the first negative response I EVER got while doing the claw, I realized after that I clawed her with my left hand instead of right; first time I did that too. Interesting.
2nd blowout
2 HB8's infront of me walking on sidewalk.
Theillbehaviored: YOU!!! (Points to them)
They stop walking and I walk up to them.
HB8: OH yeah, I never heard that before (Hardcore shit tests, I was thinking 'wtf you probally never DID hear that before?)
Theillbehaviored: Ah haha wow your fesity!
HB8: rolls her eyes/negative body language
Theillbehaviored: Wow, you two remind me of like, two little power puff girls or something ah hahaha
HB8: Wow, powerpuff girls? IN that your best pickup line?
I was too out of state to handle all the shit tests, it was so immense. I never got this many shit tests before.
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