Looks are helpful but not essential Big dick is helpful but not essential either! Enough said...

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

Looks definitely do matter, but they aren't the end-all-be-all as they are for men.

If you're good looking, you wont have to escalate as much as she's likely already attracted to you and the slightest move will be met with very little resistance (she may in fact go with your one move and than aggress at you physically). Looks/physical fitness cues are massive DHVs to women (they want man chowder from healthy specimens as it'll at least compliment their genes or even up them making for better more healthy offspring). All depends on the woman of course, but generally most non-shallow vacuous women can be 'gotten to' if you're average in the looks department but have a seductive personality. If you're ugly, oh well stay in the shallow end of the gene pool and breed with trolls.

The effect of looks on Game is ambiguous, it can go both ways.

I know good looking men who have been trapped by their looks because they ended up becoming dandies and nurturing overly feminine personalities.

I know ugly men who have been liberated by their ugliness; it was the REASON why they found game and looked to it as a way to compensate for their other shortcomings.

Looks do matter, but the question of if they always help or not isn't as black and white as most people think. If you take the idea in a vacuum; yes, looks "always" help, the same way money always helps. But in reality, these things work in tandem with other facets of your personality and environment. Whether they hinder or help you is largely up to how you utilize what you're given. Which is another reason why, on a fundamental level, Game trumps everything else.

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I wouldn't use the word compensate. You can learn through game to accept and to love yourself and love the way you look.

I remember reading from Style's diaries how at one point he realized that being attractive is totally inner game thing. I was confused at first and it took me years to learn that to be true.
AMEN!

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Style may be a bit full of shit. A successful guy like he was, even before he got into pua, would be able to score women because do like that.

A guy working at mcdonalds can only go so far with "game".

And like I said, no words can be exchanged if the woman doesnt want to talk to you. And if she does talk to you she's looking around the room to see if anyone is watching, and seeing what else is happening.

But if you were a great looking guy, she wouldnt do that.

THAT'S the difference.

I know I dont want to be seen talking to an ugly chick, so it stands to reason

Actually, looks do matter, but not very much.

Take me for an example, I was always just an average looker (even a bit ugly, had nearly no hair at the age of 23, and my teeth are not really straight, and i am a little bit smaller than average.).

However I had no game at all back then, and I got some of the most beautiful ladies to sleep with me.

The reason for this was simple: I was always feeding the impression I am the boss. Even in school people rated me the first one who would make a million dollars on his own after school.

In fact now I have a small company with employers. It just came true, because I always believed i could pull something off like that. I am not anymore intelligent than others. But I always could pretend i know more than others even if I don't

The other advantage I have, is that i have no real approach anxiety, that definitely helped me.

However I am totally new to the game and now I am trying to get better at this. I have still very much to learn.

So the funny thing now is: I have a very good friend, much better looking than me (like a young george cloonie ), having also a great job and money, but he gets no girls at all. Never really. He has absolute AA and he gets rediculously nervous around girls. So I tried to open sets for him, and it ends almost with the girls just talking to me, because all he is saying to the girls is practically "yes/no/ok".

So in the end, i do not want to switch with him. I know that there are enough HBs out there, that like my looks (otherwise i wouldnt get any kiss-closes and stuff). And I absolutely love the challenge, with better looks it wouldnt be such a great challenge. So I am absolutely happy the way I am.

So don't worry, with bad looks, the game is even more interesting. And its just so great, to get to sleep with a HB9 and people asking you, how the hell you pull that off, you are not looking anything special.

So if you are not a good looker, be thankful, game is so much more fun like that. And who the hell wants to play this game in easy mode? I am in this for the challenge, and i want a real challenge.

Playing this game in hard more with looks below average is so much more fun, and believe me, soooooo much more rewarding, if you see how people look, when you get to kiss that hb9 girl.

But what if your good looking friend did the same thing you did? Then he would get all the women.

@Captain Catch:

Sure, he would. But what would I do with that many women?

And as I said, its much more fun, to show people you can get women especially when you are not good looking. (Everyone thinks good looking men can get woman anyway, nothing special or skilled about that).

If you are looking to got, and if the game is too easy for you and you get every woman you want..... wow, that would be sooo boring. It wouldnt feel like real achievements any more.

To me, its much more than just sex, its this whole feeling of getting something that is actually very hard to get for you. Getting something that is easy to get..... no fun in that. Prostitutes are easy to get, if you have the money, but there is simply no fun in it and nothing rewarding...

There are enough women out there, I don't have to get every single one.

Perhaps you understand what I mean. I want a challenge, i want it to be hard, not easy. Only that way it feels so great to me