I've been seeing this sweet girl recently. She's a very head in the clouds type a girl who seems very loyal and yeah she's gorgeous. I really like this girl and yesterday was the first time I had some guy try to run his game while we were swinging on these musical swings together.
He came and sat at the 3rd swing and said, let's all swing together at the same time, it plays a different song, looking back at it now I see how this was his bait. Then the 3 of us starting talking, and the with time he continued to give more attention to my girl, his friend who looked like he had no game, started taking pictures of us on the swings which made it even more awkward. I began to feel uncomfortable and got off the swings, they talked for 2 minutes, and then she walked off with me.

I feel as thought the more the interaction went on, the more uncomfortable I got.
I should've figured what was going on and blowed him off right away by telling him, "sorry bro, you can swing by yourself thought, I'm just here with my girl"
I felt as thought when I complied with his proposal, I had to continue to be nice to him out of genuine social norms.

I know I should just let it go now, but I'm still a bit angry and keep replaying things in my mind that I could've said to him.
Like "So how long you guys been dating? Oh I'm sorry I thought you guys were gay, my bad, nice shoes by the way"

Or just bombard him with logical questions.
But I didn't do any of that because I was just in the moment with my girl having a good time, and I didn't feel like starting anything and was naive enough to think that he came over there because he wanted to cheer us up with his presence and nothing more.

So my question is, what do you do with guys come up to you while you're with your date... girlfriend, how do you handle it?
And what to expect when dating a 10?

I wouldn't make a big deal out of it, as long as your girl goes home with you. It doesn't really matter, if she's a 10 she is going to get hit on, simple as. But she is with you and she isn't going to just go off with someone that hits on her.

Depends what you look like. And I mean that politely. But if you are a nerd and have a 10, most people would be wondering what the hell you two are doing together. And make assumptions.

Actually if she really is a 10, they would probably be wondering why you two were together anyway, unless you were a 10 yourself.

Ive never had a 10, so it hasnt happened to me much, I have had a few really really good looking ones and got certain looks and stare downs.

But one thing it will do, is make you more attractive to women, if they believe there are no "other" reasons for you being with her.

Don't be a dick. No girl really likes jealousy and insecure guys.

My previous EXs have always been hit on. I would just play cool. Befriend the guy and clearly make it obvious she is my girlfriend.

Example.

Guy: So how do you guys know each other?
Me: Oh we're banging. I mean, shes the love of my life. I sweeped down from the stars on a horse with roses for her.

Normally the girl I am with just laughs.

And then after the guy leaves. I'm usually like:

"I think he was hitting on you. You should go give him your number, see if he has any hot female friends."

But you gotta be very cool playing this, no sense of insecurity.

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Im 5'11, 175lbs, athletic, I do martial arts, skydiving, business owner, professional gambler, and yes I often am told that I am good-looking by girls. Althought my biggest weakness is social calibration.
I am upset because the guy who approached wasn't as handsome nor as masculine as I am, perhaps more socially attuned.

So lay down on insecurity? Yeah, it seems more logical, but what about the philosophy where you amog the amog before he has a chance to get to your girl?
What about a funny remark designed to make him look like a tool. Something like
"Do you always talk to strangers"?
or
"Are you in a relationship? I'll introduce you to my friend Mike, he's (gay accent) GORGEOUUS!"

"Do you always talk to strangers"? = insecure.

"Are you in a relationship? I'll introduce you to my friend Mike, he's (gay accent) GORGEOUUS!" = trying to make it funny but insecure.

I personally don't try to diminish an AMOG by being an asshole. It really doesn't portray you well.

A guy who is confident doesn't need to act that way, you act as if you are the catch and the girl is lucky to be with you. You see from what I said, the girl gets that you're willing to lose her...if she makes that mistake.

Your comments just shows insecurity. Girls can smell that and its unattractive.

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Well thats a matter of being a doer and not a watcher.

Game to me is just following through on what u want to acheive. It doesnt give you magic powers or make women fall all over you. Maybe for some extremly good seducers, but for the vast majority, game is just the simple act of going after it, and not pussying out.

So your advice is do nothing? I tried talking with the guy, but it sorta like this random stranger is attempting to play this game. What if the Amog is ignoring you and talking to your girl? isn't that a sign of disrespect?

Don't gladhand the guy with fake enthusiasm. "Oh really??" "Wow!" In fact, go make a phone call or something if you have to. If he bores you, yawn.

These guys are right. Masked insecurity is still insecurity.

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Honestly...I never asshole AMOG...

I don't sarcastically AMOG (I don't imply the guy is gay or say 'nice shoes' my gay friend has ones like those) I don't AMOG in these amateur fashions.

I simply tell my girl "Hey lets go somewhere else." Tell the dude hey man was nice meeting you and essentially blow him out. If he's following, then I frame it as "man you like following people a lot don't you"...this sarcasm amog works because if he's tailing you and your gf...at that point he's socially INEPT...not attuned

The problem is you stayed there to converse with the guy. I would have said hey baby lets go, hey man nice meeting you. It wouldn't have come off as me trying to take her away or force her away, but realistically..yea.

You met him for what...1 minute? It could have been easy to blow him out.

Oh also...what to expect when dating a 10?

I expect absolutely the same thing I expect from a girl who is a 9, 8 , 7,6,5,4,3,2,1 - just that. She's just another fucking girl. The moment you get strapped on her as being the HOT 10 you snagged the moment you lose her because you're trying to hard to not fuck it up.

Just chill, and next time if you don't like a guy who just starts ignoring you then just blow him out by taking your gf away.

I think that the right amount of jealousy is sexy. Spices things up for me. Not the insecure type, but when he shows that he's a man and that he's not afraid to stand up for himself and his "trophy".

Also, nerdy guys that most girls consider unattractive usually appreciates you more. Me. You? Uhm, whatever. You know what I mean. Feels like that. I dont even look at too confident guys.

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Start conversating with the guy and deliberately keep the girl out of the conversation (if it's a bar environment and you just met the girl, this is dangerous cause she could walk off + she's not yours to begin with, but you're safe here). Really put some effort into doing this. Pretend you're really enjoying chatting to the guy and that you've formed a bond. Lock him into a conversation with you. Somewhere in all that, make sure you make it obvious that she's your girl and that you're not gay, of course. The idea is to make him regret ever approaching you guys. If you're lucky and he's uncomfortable, he'll walk off.

Your right in that your mindset should be the same for all women, your wrong thinking 10's have to be treated the same as 7's.

Remember a 10 knows she's hot, a 7 isnt so sure. So u dont tell her shes hot, and act liek you never been around a hot woman before.

But the 7 might need some reassuring.

Anyway, no two people are the same.