Hi Guys,
So I am gaming this hb and this guy I know is focussing on her too.We've seen each other several times.So, I though he doesn't have a chance at all since she gave me a lot of IOI's and I know for sure she likes me. But he doesn't give up. He keeps telling her DHV stories like he has a lot of girls in his life and many girls likes him and I know that he is alone.
I though I didn't need to do anything since I didn't want to ruin my game because of him but I felt some threats today.She is so simple and young and have no idea about this games and beilve what he says. I am kinda frustrated.
I'll meet both tonight. How can I tell this HB and dis interets about this guy without sounds jealous? I have higher value in her eyes but I was laid back and wanted to make everything slow but this guy goes so fast! what to do?

Thank you,

Hahah what a joke! He's blowing himself out, don't worry. Advice is simple: Don't react! Simply keep eye contact with her it'll be the nonverbal dialogue the two of you share as he goes on and on trying to sell himself to her - you can even do some stuff like roll your eyes at her as he goes off on a tangent about how great he is and the 2 of you will share a good laugh while at the same time staying connected.

Super easy man, just chill, be cool and non-reactive and have fun with it! This is a non-issue.

You could also create an "us" frame. Say, "This guy sure does tell some unbelievable stories. He can entertain us all night."

That's just giving him more influence, even though negative its still giving him more than he deserves. I'd sooner let him blow himself out and use it as an opp to use nonverbals with the girl im gaming.

I would do what agent said a little bit later on in the night.

When you guys first meet each other, give him a hard time. Tease him about it. If he's lying he will crack under pressure. If he's telling the truth and really is this alpha guy, he will flip the script and tease you.

For example

Douchebag: I have all these girls that want me, it's ridiculous.
You: Oh so you must be a ladies man aye? How come I never see you with girls?

If he falls into your frame and answers your question, you will look great. Afterwards you can just look at the girl and create a mutual connection b/c both of you will know he's full of it. (Just like agent said)

Why even take the chance? Too much open to error and is more work than is necessary.

I agree with agent, he's revealing his insecurities and will be figured out soon, girls notice that better than you'll think. he's now giving you higher value just by being lower than you, in a way he's helping you and he doesn't know it. don't react, don't take him seriously....sometimes in this situation I pretend to be interested to what the nuisance is saying and in a calm, friendly convincing way ask him more about the story digging deeper so he can reveal more of his insecurities...don't press too hard, the opportunity should be easy...as soon as the girl seems bored, save her by taking her away to another location....

in any case, just stay un-reactive, she already likes you, don't give her a reason to not like you by showing insecurities as him, sooner or later if not by now, he will be figured out.

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First off make sure you don't let her see that you feel threatened by this guy. If she catches any wind off this she'll play you against each other.
I'd be willing to bet that this guy is probably feeling threatened so play on this. Be 100% friendly and if he starts validating himself to her (how many female friends he has) you could re frame it in a negative way like:

"Holy crap your like one of those players who has 50 girlfriends huh? That's cool man your a cool guy."

-No chick wants to be with the male equivalent of a snookie

"I watched a show one time on VH1 where they took a bunch of nerdy kids who play d&d and turned them into players overnight it was crazy weird."

-Slight reference to make him seem like one of those nerdy kids. Note "weird"

"They were like these creepy little automatons that would walk up to girls, spit out canned routines and collect their numbers. I couldn't believe half the girls on that show that fell for it."

-Challenging her not to fall for these types of games. Note "creepy"

I hope some of this helps.

Good luck!

BTW I have nothing but love and respect for you guys and this community so don't take any of these sentiments seriously.

This infers defensiveness, women pickup on this very well as they typically do it towards other women they loathe (called 'catyness'). Bad move.

This. It ain't rocket science dudes. Why write responses of ten lines when "don't react" suffises.