Some guy at her work asked her out on a date. He has money new car blah blah blah. She told him that my bf wouldn't like that. I'm a little delerious from pain meds so I'm gonna be short. What is the best way to go about this fellas or ladies that could chime in?[/code]

You think girls care about that kind of stuff? The best car and the money doesn't mean shit if the guy isn't fun to be with. He could take you to Cancun but you have to be with him the whole time, so what's the fun?

Losers will be losers no matter how rich they get, check out the guy that built MegaUpload and tell me if you think he's attractive? Ask your girl if she thinks he's attractive.



Yeah, he's got a girl but he looks like a douche and she looks like a whore. She's not even THAT hot, I mean for a multimillionaire's playtoy.

Yea I know that. That stuff don't mean a damn thing to me. I kinda got pissed when she told me that. I haven't had a steady relationship since I started pu last year. I was fine being single but I like this girl and I feel she is the same. Before I would get jelouse now I'm beyond that but I feel my pride a little shook.

She told you to step your game up? Sounds like she passively mentioned she was hit on. Interesting she felt the need to qualify herself to you as a 'hot item' that you better step up for.

Do you have any female friends? If not, I would just lie to her and say hey a friend of mine she wants to go out tonight so I'll talk to you a bit later. If she lives with you, I'd just keep her at the house. Watch her get rampantly attracted

I would go with CaptainJackHarkness's approach if your just dating.

But if you really like her, be honest with her. Tell her wtf does "step your game up" mean? Your her boyfriend and you care about her but she saying shit that's fuckin' with your brain.

#KeepItReal

Or watch the relationship fall apart as all this is doing is making her jealous because she made him jealous, not exactly a healthy thing.

If the relationship falls apart due to the fact that he's going out with a friend, then she's not exactly worth his time is it? Nothing is worse than someone who holds double standards. Oh...you step your game up, but the minute I realize as a woman I might fuck it up with you, I'm going to leave?

If anything doing the jealousy move helps him see really where he is in this relationship...and no offense does not sound like it's a very strong place to begin with.

To the OP, take my advice or risk playing these stupid games that lowers your value as a man. You're too old for this shit, and by too old, I mean you're more than 14 years of age.

I am not here much and didn't read all posts, but when I do come I see a lot of your posts, and dude, you give some shitty advice. You are saying this guy to over analyze (she felt the need to qualify blabla), to lie, to be reactive (a guy hits on her so I'll go hit on other girls). And you think this will get here more attracted. This really shows that your whole perception of man woman relationship comes from pua books, not from your experience.

Please take this as constructive critique.

Here is to the OP:

- You don't need to step your game cause your gf did or say something. |
- You need to improve yourself (in areas that matter to you) because of your self and your self alone.
- In situations like this when a girl is trying to make you jealous, you just need to do one thing. And that's NOTHING.
- Know that your girl is with you, not because she doesn't get hit a lot. But the opposite, because she does get hit a lot and she knows that she could never find a guy like you.

Example of how this situation should go:
Her: "Some guy from worked asked me on date." (waiting for your reaction. As soon as you think something is wrong with you or relationship you lose)
You: "I wonder if we have more Bavaria peach cider? Cool, where does he want to take you?"
Her: "That new place that opened up on..."
You: "Great. Can you get me some cyders on your way back?" (calmly)
Her: Pause... and she is getting frustrated already.
You: Just look her in the eyes and keep looking with a small smile. You show her you know what she is trying to do, but you don't let her shit get you.
Her: She slowly comes to you. Then you kiss her.

Edit: I just read your signature"When done properly it is a privilege to be picked up by a Pick-Up Artist.." - Mystery. This is just fucking stupid and this is what prevents your growth.

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Right...we can listen to the Serbian version of Style here, or we can actually play back with this woman who is giving you shit - because OP lets face it, this bullshit Mystery method of non-reactiveness won't work with this girl, she's in a different cookie jar if she's already baiting you to "step it up"

The only way to disinterest her is to step it up yourself by asking her to do the same.

As to 'Defy' I find your posts as useful as you find mine. Real experience would show that this is how it will be done. Sometimes some girls need a reaction. If you don't think so, I think you need to gain the experience you seem to be doling out to others to get. I'll let you think on that one.

I agree with this guy. Sorry captain, but he's right. Why would you play in her ball park when you can play and win in your own?

Defy's got it nailed down perfectly. There is very little more you could possibly do than to rattle off the conversation similar to the way he described it. With this, you're able to take every ounce of power away from her with one fell swoop.

Reactive behaviour is always bad as it gives her the opportunity to be mad at you. (cfr. "You do the same!!!!!!!") You can't win a discussion with a girl when you've both done the same.
Defy +1

If my girlfriend ever told me to step my game up in regards to some rich guy, I would show her the door. Way too many other women out there to tolerate any BS on that level. my two cents