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so is what your saying here that many of us have completely the wrong idea of love.....Love in a relationship is just sexual attraction to a women, is that the same for a man?
Im unsure as i've been so socially programmed myself that i just don't know how to be anymore.....i have the game telling me about evolution and that in reality life is much more simpler than portrayed by the media....BUT On the otherhand I am lucky enough at my young age to have successfull people around me who talk one hell of alot about spirtiuality and god..... and still see love as something to do with the soul.
I feel like i need to make up my mind on which path i want to follow, so i can commit to a way of living. Do humans not feel some innate sense of something beyond ourselves isn't that how shahmans, spirituality and the whole idea of god came about?
The sexual attraction is one part of the equation.There is also the emotional part.
We are seeing only part of the picture.Please understand conventional spirituality
and god are doctrinal and dogmatic in nature meaning if you want to go to heaven,you must obey god and what it entails.Whereas the others like new age
simply recognises the oneness that we are all connected to each other and have a common destiny.Then there is the ancient taoist scientists that see man,nature
and the connection to the vast universe as a single whole and it's inner workings.
They understand that it's all about energy,human physical lifeforce interacting
with nature and the universe.Basically it's about energetic harmony and it's
principles that govern physical life force and whatever you call the external environment.If practiced properly it will lead to higher stage of enlightenment.
To take a leaf from the taoists,PUA activity as practiced now with indiscriminate
sexual energy discharged (ejaculation) will lead to a weaken physical state and shortened life span.That is quality of life will detoriate prematurely.There is over
five thousand years of scientific study and experience in these statements.Sex according to the ancient scientists is used for healing and balancing of the yin(female) and yang (male) energies in men and women, promoting good health and spiritual enlightenment.Just read "The art of the bedchamber".
Doing sex has it's place if done properly.Be a "jade dragon" and partner with
a "white tigress or tigeresses".It's a spiritual connection at a high level.It's not about getting off or shooting your load.There are literature you can examine yourself.Then decide on the path you want to take.All the best.