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Right now, you're the person who needs her more than she needs you; and a relationship like that will never work. Girls only chase what they can't have, you're waiting on the sidelines for a decision. Even if hypothetically she does accept your proposal because she thinks it'll be good for her, your relationship will have lackluster passion and will only remind her of what she misses about her ex.
You're supposed to communicate challenge to a girl, how are you doing that when you're texting her 20 minutes after you ask her out?
Never judge a girl by her words, only by her actions. You fucked up the moment you thought "oh she likes me because she said she likes me." Her saying it doesn't mean anything. Does she want to be your girlfriend? Do you guys have secks? Do you do anything? She doesn't like you. She likes the attention you give her and is using you as a surrogate boyfriend to cushion her ego from getting dumped by the guy she really wants. She is saying stuff like "You're amazing" to keep you hooked onto her approval, you are in a qualifying mentality.
All this being said, you're not out of hope. Granted you have a bit of a bond with her, you can segue into attraction by push/pulling and gaming other girls. A girl wants a guy with value; someone who OTHER GIRLS want, someone willing to dump her, someone she can capitulate to.
that made a lot of sense I've been ignoring her txts somewhat and im going to try to start gaming other girls.. Should I just forget about her and start gaming other girls?