Hello everyone!
First of all I would like to say that I am quite new to this forum despite reading it for allmost a year now and I would like to share my appreciation to everyone that helps people like me to be better in the Pick-up field. A big Thank you to all of you.
Also, please excuse my poor english, it's not my native language.

Now for the problem I have. I'll try to keep it short. Six years ago i broke up from a very special girl. I've met her in a one-week vacation and spent 6 days at that time together until the vacation ended. Due to the fact that she was from another town (about 500 km away from mine) the relationship wasn't looking very good. Despite that, we kept connected and continued the "relashionship" for about 10 months (only by distance). We never had sex because she was very young when I met her (I found she was only 15 years old in the last day of the vacation. she was looking more of a 17-18 year old girl, me beeing 20 at that time).
After the relationship ended we kept the connection as friends. We talk about once/month, sometimes rarely, sometimes more often. We talk about everything, often including our sexual life (sometimes in extreme detail) and we have no secrets whatsoever.
In all those years, the conversations we had where started by her (in more than 80% of the cases). In the last year she invited me several times to visit her town and see her, and directly telling me that I can stay at her place over night (knowing that I am marryed for 3 years now).
I know that I was (and I still am) a very special person for her. We have, (despite the years that have passed since we last seen eachother and my marriage) a friendship at the border between buddy and lover.
In the next couple of weeks I will make a short visit to her town. I will probably stay just one day, maybe 2. I told her that and I invited her to a coffe to see eachother and she was very excited abot that. She accepted immediately and told me to make sure that I will tell her the exact date with one or two days in advance so she will be available.
So, my intention is to have sex with her and maybe turn her into a fuck-buddy since my actual job would give me more ocasions to visit her town than I had untill now.

What I would like to know from you guys is how my approach should be. What to do to game her and, most important, what I should NOT do to ruin the evening. I am very excited myself, I had this desire to bang her from the moment I met her, and now I have a very good ocasion.

Thank you in advance for any good advice.

once you found out she was 15 you should of told her to get fucked, i know if a 20 year old was trying to get with my 15 year old daughter i'd be taking a baseball bat to his legs

Maybe I should have done that, but I didn't. Thoesn't matter that now. I cared about her very much at that time, and I still care. Was a very special person for me...

Nobody?

UPDATE

Ok, we've met, and I kind of fucked-it up big time....

The date started well, the entire time she was laughing, smiling, we talked about everything including sexual topics etc... As the conversation goes, it was perfect, the eye contact was good, she was enjoying herself, she was very excited we've met (at least in the begining) and that's about it....

From that point I had a black-out. I don't know what happened to me, I knew what I had to do but I didn't... I got stuck in the confort zone and I couldn' get out.

No kino whatsoever (I knew that was one of the most important parts). I couldn't get flirty, I didn't even teased her at all (teasing is something that I can do naturaly, but now I just didn't).

I can tell that she was a bit dissapointed at the end of the date, that excitement during the date was allmost gone.

As far as I can tell, the whole time I treated her like a friend. I wanted to get out of the friend-zone but all I've done was to put her in my friend-zone.

I don't know what happened to me, I knew everything I had to do but I couldn't do it. And I don't know why! I wasn't nervous, I wasn't shy, I wasn't affraid of gaming her, I just didn't know where to start. I stuffed my brain with all the things I should have done, but maybe it was too much of information and didn't knoe how to connect the dots and where to start.

The only good thing that I can find is that I wasn't an AFC at all. I just acted like a very good friend. I kind of shown my indifference towards her as a female all the time.

So guys, do you think I fucked-it up bad or is still good to go next time? (I will have a short trip to her town again in 1-2 months).

Your thoughts would be appreciated!

She's 15, you're 20?

I think you should leave her the fuck alone.

If not - I think you're a piece of shit.

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

This time I will ignore that insult because maybe you didn't read the first post too good. Please, next time read it carefully before insulting someone.

But let me explain egain:

She WAS 15 years old 7 years ago. Now she's 22 and I am 27. And when she was 15, I didn't fucked her for that precise reason. So at that time I've let her the fuck alone. Now are we good?

I would like to ask you to keep this thread free of this type of comments, because, after 7 years, they really do not matter anymore.

I will appreciate though, the advices related to the questions in this topic and not why I did what I did long time ago (reasons explained in the first post).

Thank you

You're right, I didn't read it well. My apologies.

OK.... So:

Have her meet you in your room. Stay for a VERY short time, make small talk, then leave.

Go get coffee, whatever... re-connect during this time. If the vibe is there... invite her back to your room (you have to show her something....that's always good...a Youtube clip like 2Cellos 'Welcome to the Jungle' is awesome). By going back to your room, she'll be much more comfortable as she's already been there and felt safe. Her mindset will be much more receptive.

Then simply kino escalate.

Good luck!

RR

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Women are like ceramic tile.... if you do the prep work, and lay them properly the first time...you can walk all over them for years to come.

1. get dressed (nicely)
2. get confident
3. haircut?
4. Think of some funny lines
5. Think of some stories that bring back pleasant memories. never be at a lost for words. literally plan out everything you can say
6. Think of questions you want to ask her. Information to know how to proceed.
7. Scope the place out. Know where you want to sit and potential challenges that may arise
8. Plan out the whole evening and look calm and controlled the whole time. Girls like spontaneity...fuck that shit! A man should always have a plan.
9. Read her feelings. See how far you can push. This will tell you far to go.

also think of stories to convey value...

Did everything except point 9: "See how far you can push".
I didn't escalate at all, even though she gave me chances....


@RetiredRodeo

Apologies accepted.
The room ideea sounds good, i'll definetely do that next time