Basically you can't expect to win them all lol. Now I know the pick up arts is called a game for a reason, so when she IOD's I know your suppose to IOD her back? What exactly should you tell her in this position?

Depends on what she said. What IODs are you talking about? There are quite a few ways she can IOD you. But your attitude must always be uncaring in such situations. So if she says something which is of disinterest, you don't give a shit what she says, and can actually just turn away from her and talk to someone else.

If you're 4 years old that's perfect, but really, are you?
You're supposed to be alpha, it doesn't affect you one bit; girl goes
"you're such a jerk"
"only to you "
You turn it into a playful and fun flirt, you never go

"you're such a jerk"
"well you're a douche so shut up"
Obviously this will end in a slap and you'll look like the most retarded man alive

end story - IOD's are never IOD's, the only time you know shes not interested is if she says "go away" and walks away from you; other than that it's usually a test to see if you're man enough to handle her

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If she IOD's ....it means something went wrong. But man ....after you open so many sets you're going to realize if someone walks up and says "hey whats up" you could react Good, Bad, or Angry.

Now hey whats up is such a neutral (not direct or indirect) opener, that it's hilarious when I get some people that are actually taking it badly. I just say hey whats up with a smirk, and I put out my hand. Some look at it in disgust..it's just like seriously? In cases like this, I neg them or in other words an IOD for an IOD...

It just really depends on the person at that moment. Some just generally are less receptive and may throw IOD's out of their ass like its no big deal. I really believe a factor of the game is not in our control.

Our conversation (leading), our reactions (should be none or its weaker for us) and what our own mouth puts out in the first impression is ALL in OUR control.

Sometimes, I just call out a girl for what she is. Example this actually happened with a HB10:

Hey I just wanted to come here and see if you're more than your looks *hand out* whats your name (note this is A3 in Mystery Model....he never recommends this but I do direct game).

Her: eyeroll *lean back*

Me: Okay...so far you have nothing more going for you than your looks...IOD with *IOI calibrator*

Her: starts laughing - wow you have some balls.

Me: *looks down* Thanks for um..noticing? Weirdo... *IOI calibrator*

Note these are all negs.

I think Jack it best, well done. That's exactly what I mean. Char, to specify, by IOD I didn't mean she calls you a "jerk" or says "Go away" what I mean is simply, she lacks interest in you or you bore her.

But thanks for the feedback guys.

Also Charblad, I sent you a Private message, responde back when you can.