Been doing daygame. Got few facebook contacts. Few numbers.

I go with my hunch, and add them after 12-20 hours. After they accept me I wait some more to send them a message.

I haven't had that mauch expirience to know how long I should or shouldn't wait. Besides, a facebook contact is less intimate then the number close, so there are different rules for that.

So, how long do you wait, what do you usually say, and how soon do you invite her for minglin?

wait a day. send her a message saying that you dug meeting her and that you wna have a proper chat sometime but that you've got shit to do now, and that you'll swing her a proper message when you find the time.

A day or two later send her a message saying "Sorry about earlier, had a million things to do. It was cool seeing you that time out and that we should meet up for coffee sometime" wait to see what she says.

If she says something/anything positive in response say "listen, i don't really use facebook that much, i feel its life consuming and i like to be out and meet people rather so gimme ur number and i'll send you a text sometime"

Then save her number and send her text whenever you want. Prob best if you keep it short and sweet and to the point. Ask her out on a date almost immediately but do not seem like you care send a text saying "ay listen, i just got a free spot next week wednesday, lets grab a coffee?" thats it....

Good luck bro,

HAMinator

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