Hi Guys,

How do we handle this?

You meet a girl at a party, connect on Facebook the next day. You send a message: "pleased to meet ya', see you at the next party.."
You meet again (at the next party), you have fun, it's cool, it's casual..
You think it's time for the next move.. Because you don't have her number, you send a message: "Would you send me your number, please? Thanx Babe!"
By now she knows all too well that you like her..

Then... nothing happens, no reply.. Nothing..

Is it worth sending a reminder? If you do, it may come accross as needy, desperate, clingy.. if you don't: what kind of a player are you?

I am in this situation with a couple of girls that i'm gaming right now. I'd love to wait until the next party and start busting their balls about it. However, it may take another 2 weeks before i meet them again (at the next party), but it could be 2 months as well..

It'll be a bit lame to start breaking their balls over a message that you sent 2 months earlier, right? So back to the reminder then?

Your thoughts? Thanx!

Start with a -rebuild- comfort message, to open again, some small funny chat, then number close, just like its all brand new again!

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Yes, Heywood,
It's surely a comfort-issue. We really had a blast at the parties, but the total time we spent together is still less than 6 hours in total.
I'll wait 'til Wednesday morning and send something less flirting..

Go for the comfort message if your desperate.

But if your not you should wait until you see her again and act like you never got blew off.

I think the bigger question that should be asked is, why didn't you get her number at the party?

Asking for her number online when you have met in person is very beta. Its seen as very passive and can be a bit of a turn off some girls. You should man up next time and try and isolate her for a second and ask for her number after you have built a bit of a rapport

Hi Numb3r5,

I did the Fabebook-close at the first party.

When she came to say goodnight at the end of the second party, i asked her "So when are going to cut my hair?" (She is a hairdresser) She said: "Any time.."
And as i was about to ask her number there and then, her female friend (drunk and upset about something) pulled her away and said: "We have to go, NOW.."
The FF pulled her out of the party (forcibly) and all my target could do was stumble: "Bye.."

I would've gotten the number easily if that didn't happen.. I was talking to another girl at that time as well, so i couldn't run after them or anything like that.

You know, shit and other unexpected things do happen, so plan B was to ask the number online, now I need a plan C ;o)

You cannot change the past! You can only learn from it, I think you did well given the circumstance. It is okay to re-open girls that you stumbled on. Just plow through like it never happened. Wait a few days, a week a month. Just do it with confidence. I the meantime sarg other girls!!!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Well, i just sent her a another message, saying that i urgently need her number for a new haircut.. which is actually true since i broke up with my previous hairdresser whom i also dated..

Weak.

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-Hit me up with some Reps if anything I say has helped! Much love.

WEAK.. but good enough, because she sent her number including apologies and a few kisses ;o)

We have mutual female friends, maybe she checked my background with them, to make sure she doesn't give her number to a crazy psycho.. who knows?
Whatever, my haircut is an ideal alibi to spend 30 minutes together in another environment than the party-scene.

Up to the next level in the game ;o)

Good JOB Bro!

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.