Hey guys this is a major sticking point of mine, the girls I seduce or kiss-close often come up with the "I'm afraid to get hurt" relationship trap.

I just dont understand why this isn't more discussed in pickup. I don't know what I'm doing wrong but very often the girls act like they wont get in my bed unless I become their official boyfriend. They say I look like the typical player that will hurt them.

I try to playfully make fun of this by saying "Oh baby, you know you'll always be the only one for me" in a tongue-in-cheek manner.

I dont want to lie and get in trouble, is this what you guys do?

Thanks for your help.

edit: I dont really think this is the regular anti-slut defense, more like girls acting like they wont be able to survive another heartbreak.

Iv recently encountered this type of thing too. Had a girl say stuff like aww you don't want to waste your time with me, don't hang around just cause of me. bla bla but then still came with me to club etc and was showing interest. She went on to talk about how shes been hurt in the past etc... Not quite sure how to deal with this either