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| Soulsurfer619 | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 7:19 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 6:51 am Posts: 14 Location: Long Island , NY | | Whats up playas ,
I'm having a tough situation at the moment. I dont know how to properly send a message to a quality girl on a dating site from my town. She has alot going on for her in her " About Me Section " and I was like dang ! For example attending medical school , dances , races cars , parties from her pictures. For myself , Im just grateful for getting back on my feet with a job that pays decent. All I do is work to save $$$ hopefully get a place of my own , get back to school. Internally , I just hesitated to send her a message earlier. Any suggestion how I should go about this ?
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| AmazingArt | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 7:39 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Apr 10, 2011 5:17 am Posts: 428 | | Money is not the main thing. Many very very hot girls live with old rich guys. How do they feel. Are they happy? I bet 90% of them aren't because any second a girl would rather be with a fun masculine guy who doesn't give a fuck what anyone thinks of him and has a strong frame. The only way to develop this is through gaming more girls. Also don't put too much expectations into any one girl. Only think of her once you have her in your bed. I know it can be hard at times because you feel everything is going good with this girl and in your head you plan out so many things but if things go wrong you will feel really bad. It will be like a dream going down the drain and you will feel like it was your fault and your not good. So just don't put too much expectation into this girl. Have fun and game more girls !!!
- Amazing Art - _________________ "Experience is the teacher of all things"
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| Soulsurfer619 | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 7:57 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 15, 2012 6:51 am Posts: 14 Location: Long Island , NY | | I know I shouldn't even be thinking this way. But to know I can get response like a laugh would be kool. At least I know I did something correct because online I've sucked in the past BUT Improving along the way. Any suggestions on an opener ?
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| AmazingArt | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 8:08 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot | Joined: Sun Apr 10, 2011 5:17 am Posts: 428 | | I am not such a big fan of online dating but things could happen. You want to get a good response from this girl because that will make you feel good. What this means is your seeking validation which is not good. Lets say this girl doesn't laugh you will feel terrible because you will think it's your fault but it's really not. In order to be good with any girl you have to align your emotions(what you really want to do) to your actions(what you are doing) and be comfortable with it.So start from today. You asked me how to open this girl, right? Say what is on your mind. Why do you like this girl? Is it because she "races cars" if so open as follows: "I saw you like racing cars I found it very interesting and wanted to chat to you". This is just an example. If you want to just bang the girl in club you say something even more gutsy "I think your fucking hot I want you". Just be congruent with your feelings and you'll be a pro. The more girls you talk to the faster you will get better.
- Amazing Art - _________________ "Experience is the teacher of all things"
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