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I dont look for silly approach invites or "IOIS". If i see a cute girl whether it will be in a club or in the day i just approach her. No need to see if she was checking you out or not, I just believe she is attracted to me and I approach.
Silly approach invites. HA! You can experience a million of these " silly" invites on the approach walk alone as well as throughout the conversation. To limit yourself to your world alone is to limit yourself period. I mean no offense by this comment but, if you are basing your communication with a woman on words and your desire alone, you will lose the battle quite often.
There's nothing wrong with just approaching a woman you find attractive. But if you are not willing to fine tune your skills of observation( body language) you will never be an elite PUA.
Being a pick up artist is not about cold approaching every woman you see or find attractive. That's a pick up monkey. A true pick up artist is efficient, limits his approaches as he is aware of future targets observing, his own persona and image as a desirable man and takes pride in a high seduction ratio. It's not just about getting laid, its about going after a target and seducing her. There is nothing more satisfying then knowing you are going to walk up to that woman and totally blow her away, knowing without a doubt that you will be eventually be taking her panties off.
Even if a woman has not given off any IOI's or even aware of your presence it is still wise to get some reads before an approach. A woman will tell you a million things with her body language and posture alone. ( unless its a split second chance you have to approach. ie: day game, or a girl leaving) The more information you can get before an approach, the better suited you are for the seduction. Just like anything in life, the greater the information the greater the chance for a correct assumption.
I have a group of friends that are all very skilled at this game, and they all have the same mentality. So even if you forum dwellers disagree with me. I have to go with what and who I know.
Learn to read the signs people. Women are all about giving them off, open( available to be seduced) or closed( not available) the signs are usually always there. The better you get at seeing them, the better you will be at getting laid. PERIOD!!
If you want to waste your own time on random chance be my guest. But just know, all that time could of been used efficiently towards an actual seduction.
CHAT
