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PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 3:20 am 
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I have a question for you. Let's say you've been ignoring a girl for a really long time (8 days), because you think she's misunderstood you. She thinks you did something unfaithful, when really you didn't. And you just didn't want to deal with it so you ignored them for the 8 days. You've left no trace of contact and just disappear. How should you approach her after being away for so long and wanting to talk to them again?

I'm sort of worried that she will be pissed for ignoring her for 8 days and that she might retaliate. So do I just give her a legitimate reason for being away?

Help pls?


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 4:07 am 
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You are the Alpha. You don't owe anybody ane explanation for anything. You do whatever the fuck you want. You are allowing her to be in your presence again. If she doesn't appreciate you, then leave again.


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I have a question for you. Let's say you've been ignoring a girl for a really long time (8 days), because you think she's misunderstood you. She thinks you did something unfaithful, when really you didn't. And you just didn't want to deal with it so you ignored them for the 8 days. You've left no trace of contact and just disappear. How should you approach her after being away for so long and wanting to talk to them again?

I'm sort of worried that she will be pissed for ignoring her for 8 days and that she might retaliate. So do I just give her a legitimate reason for being away?

Help pls?
You blame it on anything BUT her. Don't make it seem like she's the reason why you're mad. Just be like "Sorry I was really busy with work/school/friends". And if she starts to bring up the past situation, then you can explain what happened again.

At this point - she would normally just apologize and be glad you're talking to her again.


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PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 6:00 am 
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I have a question for you. Let's say you've been ignoring a girl for a really long time (8 days), because you think she's misunderstood you. She thinks you did something unfaithful, when really you didn't. And you just didn't want to deal with it so you ignored them for the 8 days. You've left no trace of contact and just disappear. How should you approach her after being away for so long and wanting to talk to them again?

I'm sort of worried that she will be pissed for ignoring her for 8 days and that she might retaliate. So do I just give her a legitimate reason for being away?

Help pls?
You blame it on anything BUT her. Don't make it seem like she's the reason why you're mad. Just be like "Sorry I was really busy with work/school/friends". And if she starts to bring up the past situation, then you can explain what happened again.

At this point - she would normally just apologize and be glad you're talking to her again.
Thanks. I didn't see it from that perspective, but I guess she should feel some what apologetic for misconceiving. Thanks for the help! It kinda gives me a reassurance that i don't have to do all the apologizing/work myself!


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