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| Every_Woman's_Dream | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:12 am | |
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Joined: Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:36 am
Posts: 132 | | Most of the guys on here 1.) cant get girls or 2.) had a girl and she hurt him bad. Now the guy changes into a PUA...but I wonder is this letting girls win? Wouldn't the more honorable thing be to continue to be yourself and to find a way to make a girl like you the way you want to be? Isn't that the more proud way?
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| NineZero | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:20 am | |
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Joined: Sat Apr 28, 2012 11:13 pm
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Location: United Kingdom | | Part of being me is having the desire to be the best I can, with women and every aspect of my life. We are here because who we are, wants to improve with women.
Each should live their life, how they view best. Live and let live.
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"Don't be good, be great"
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| 870 | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:24 am | |
| Offline | | Homewrecker |  |
Joined: Wed Sep 17, 2008 7:09 pm
Posts: 1063
Location: Springfield, Missouri, USA | | The most successful schools of pickup emphasize being true to oneself above all else. The thing is, a lot of people who come here don't really know who they are. Oh, sure, they have a faint idea, but rare is the person who has actually explored their personality or tried to determine how their core values align with what they purport to believe.
Above all else, that is the main function of this community, in my opinion.
Your boy,
870 _________________ "Do not blame, call out, alpha male, superman, or water sprinkle any hoes. And what will be, will be." -Hobbit
http://tinyurl.com/c6lbje<-Member Journal (PMZ Only)
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| Mr. Assertive | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 12:28 am | |
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Joined: Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:23 am
Posts: 3488 | | Personally, I came here because I wanted to learn how to enjoy women for who they are. 870 is right about one thing, I realized through reading all the PUA material that I really just came to this community because I didn't understand myself. The material constantly makes me ask questions about myself. It is still a work in progress, but PUA is a tool to learn about yourself if more than anything. Inner game, social dynamics, values, and etc., are just personal development things. Girls will come after that.
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| Every_Woman's_Dream | PostPosted: Sun Apr 29, 2012 2:28 am | |
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Joined: Thu Apr 12, 2012 3:36 am
Posts: 132 | | Gaining confidence is not changing; it is growing in spirit to finally be able to do the things you always wanted to do. Girls always say just be yourself when they break up with you and then guys go and change in hopes to not get rejected again because the felt inadequate. But, if you change aren't you confirming, pyschologically, that you were in fact inadequate that you were wrong. That the way you were was wrong...vicious cycle.
Adding new strategies is okay, but to stop doing the things you like, that you want to do to get someone is dangerous...
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