So negging is when you make a girl feel uncomfortable and then she pursues your affection inorder to validate herself.


Machiavelli wrote

“it is much safer to be feared than loved because ...love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails.”

Compliments are pleasure which may attract a girl or she may just take it then walk away. Negs are punishments which are more reliable because no one ever wants to feel discomfort.


What are some negs that you have used? When did you use them? what results did they get you? Also when have your negs failed?

I don't think it's suppose to make the girl feel uncomfortable. It's suppose to make her feel comfortable because it rings the "Hey this guy isn't trying to get something from me" bell.

Her: *Spills something*
You: Is she always like this?

You: You got something on your shirt. *points with finger*
Her: *Looks down*
You: *Moves finger up and hits her face*

Negging is just another term for flirting.

Now get this shit out of PUA Lounge and put it where it's suppose to be!

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Not hypothetical examples. What negs have you done in real life?

Those ones.

Thanks, but for future reference do not call my post shit.

When you neg it feels like you have the power and the girl is trying to please you. When you compliment it feels like the girl has the power and you are trying to please her...big difference.

Viewing your interactions with women as a struggle for power is a recipe for powerlessness and fewer interactions with women.

And incidentally, I have long been of the opinion that Mystery majorly misinterpreted this type of banter for legitimate attempts to lower a woman's 'value' when he coined the term neg. Neither I nor any other natural I know has ever set out to intentionally hurt a woman socially except in extreme cases where a woman with an overinflated opinion of herself was intentionally disrespectful first.

What is essentially teasing, Mystery thought was serious, or at the very least, his followers have interpreted to be serious. It isn't, and the sooner you lighten up, the more fun you will have when it comes to your interactions with the opposite sex.

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Its kinda like pimping you see...

If people took all the time and energy they spent on pointless things such as negging, routines, "perfect" openers, dhv stories, text game, boyfriend destroyers, and other pointless shit and put that time and energy into actually making themselves into a better person they wouldn't have to worry about that stuff.

The problem is, all that bullshit stuff is marketed as a magic pill and quick fix which is why guys consume it like junk food.

MPUA: "Nah dude, you don't need to actually go out and live an attractive lifestyle and make yourself a high value dude... you can just "Neg The Target" and it will do the same thing!"

Magic pills sell, the truth doesn't.

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Why would you want to be feared? This isn't a game of power, save the Machiavelli for Wall Street. If you always have to be scared around women how do you enjoy them? Having sex is about enjoyment, not war. And I have to agree with Warped Mindless and 870. I don't see too much of the point of "negs". Playful banter is one thing, insults and intentionally trying to harm people are another.

The best neg I've ever seen is simply ignoring a woman's negative comments. That's about the best neg you could ever have.

yeah but isn't neg just basically teasing which is an essential part of push/pull you need to play with a woman. I don't look at negs as a way to seize power but say "hey let's play". Or are all negs just too harsh?

I seriously don't believe the neg. is just playful banter or just a little trash talk. I think the playfulness of it is supposed to hide the intent of the neg. and the intent is to make the woman insecure and to want your affection to satisfy that insecurity. I think a different example of accomplishing the intent of a neg is if a girl text you and you wait a while to text her back or she sends you a long text message and you respond with a few words...it leaves her craving attention. But there is always some way to hide that you're being a complete asshole.

I don't mean to sound devious or anything. I am just calling the technique how I see it.

Negs are shit in my opinion. But anyway, they are compliments with a negative swing to it. They are not cocky or playful insults.

"You're cute but not my type" is the famous one. Cute - compliment, not my type - negative swing.

It's basically telling a girl what she wants to hear (compliment) but then saying something bad about it.

"Do you like my hair?"
"It's nice but I prefer blondes"