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It's just the same shallow action over and over. There's no substance... I had sex with three drop dead gorgeous girls this week and at the end of the day I feel nothing but vast emotional emptiness mixed with sparatic dopamine highs. It's like a drug addiction, I'm just using women too feel better about myself. Rather than cherish I squander, because I'm in a revolving cycle of women. And it keeps me from having any plutonic connection because I'm always shielding myself.
Right on the dot hardkink. It's the dopamine effect alright. You get the slump after the high. However, there's a solution to this. What counters the effects of dopamine lows is oxytocin which you can get from orgasms and lots of cuddling.
The way I see it, you're ready to transition from multiple partners to oneitis or love. Love will give you the oxytocin you need that will subdue your dopamine lows. Just saying... Pick up is not the end all.

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