Hello guys,

Short post just to know what is YOUR take on sexting?

Sexting with a girl that you already had sex with

V.S

Sexting with a girl that you didn't have sex with yet.



Personally, I don't like sexting. I actually think it's childish... But some girls I see really likes it and who am I to not be wanting to talk about sex?!

I think that for the girls that you already had sex with, it's not a problem, and it's just something to do when both of you are bored, no biggie.

But I was actually thinking about it, and I don't know if I should actually back off if I girl I did not have sex with is initiating it.

Pros: You get to know what she really likes in bed, which will make her sexual experience much more pleasurable.

Cons: I can't tell you about it yet, but I think that it could actually be awkward if you see the girl afterwards and she is so shy about it that it become weird.



Anyways,


What's YOUR take on sexting?



P.S: And no, I'm not a 16 year old virgin

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Before I learned about PUA, sexting got me laid several times. It just demands a lot of your time. So what I usually did was to create sexting templates that I sent out to 5 to 6 girls.

After 2 to 3 weeks of sexting, the first meet up is almost always a same day lay.

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Approach. Open. Escalate. Isolate

Here are my two essential rules on texting that will save you tons of time and money:

general-questions/topic137931.html

Showing my age (not even old) but is sexting just sexual texting?

I wouldn't divide the issue mentally into 'girls I've fucked' and 'girls I haven't fucked' more into 'will sexting help me achieve my aims in this scenario right nor or not?'

Seems like a tiny part of game to be real. I can imagine for people who don't hit the clubs regularly it would be a way bigger deal.

Yes, sexting is sexual texting.

And yes, I do think that there is a difference between the girls that I already laid and the ones that I did not. Why? Because things are just so much direct with a girl you already smashed! Well, at least, for me it is...

Lets see this from another perspective: You meet up at a club with a girl that you never danced with, never kissed, etc... Will it take you longer to go for the kiss than if you already kissed that girl?

If you made out with a girl several times, and one day, you just text her something like: I wish I could be with you right now, I'd kiss you so hard, etc..."
Would it be the same with a girl that you never kissed?

I guess you could probably say that, but the chances that she'll be weird the next time you see you MUST be higher (I am not saying that it will necessarily be awkward, but I guess it could be).

As for sexting, I basically tell the girl what I would do to her if I was there and she tells me what she likes and etc.

Indeed, I do realize the great advantage it has over someone who never told her about that since you already know what she likes, but on the other hand, she could also act weird the next time I see her, knowing what will happen.


Anyways, I hope you see my point.

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

I think it's good in mdoeratio, and if you haven't f-closed them it sets the frame for when you next see them.

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don't sext because of Anthony Weiner, Brett Farve, and Bobby Petrino.

I only start sexting if I see her bring up something where I can mis interpret it and twist it into a dirty meaning. If not, then I never bring it up.

99% of the time when a girl brings up something dirty or something that can be twisted it's because she's horny. Or if she ASKS about something again.

One time, a girl says something and I responded something like, "Yeah, gotta close my windows so no one will see what I'm doing". (I was talking about an innocent subject)

And she engages by saying "Ohhh, what was it you were watching?"

and i tease back "Wouldn't you like to know, probably something you enjoy doing all the time"

etc.

Girls get randomly horny and they would be really engaging with me. And about Sexting there's a whole chapter about phone sex by Dr. David De angelo that was really helpful. Read that. It really works.

Im 19 so dont know if that has any implications on my answer but sexting a chick i havent had sex with is the fuckin best way to end up fucking them. as long as u go all out. For me personally i go into a shitload of detail to the point we're they tell me ive legitimately gotten them wet. In my opinion the next logical step for a woman is to then fuck you, why not ? shes basically already given u all the details, if anything i think it prohibits chicks from getting shy as long as u play it cool and u know exactly what turns them on, plus the biggest advantage is that she fels comfortable enough to tell u fantasies that she may not have been comfortable to try out for what ever reason, this is where u come in and make it a reality when u actually fuck. However like i said Im not in my mid to late twenties and I wouldnt try to initiate sexting with a chick from the age of 23 and over UNLESS you have that kind of sexually open relationship. But yea thats my 2 cents worth.

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The more you sweat in times of peace, the less you bleed in times of war..... you'll also probably get more pussy

How do you start sexting? I'm 30 so it may not be for me, but I think I laid out how I feel about my age. You have to get her number first right?

I don't really start texting. In fact, I don't enjoy it that much, I only find it useful since I learn what turn this specific girl on.

Normally, girl will text me something like: Hey, do me a favor, tell me all the nasty things you want to do with me!

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Dear Optimist, Pessimist & Realist,

Just to let you know that while you guys were arguing about the glass of water...... I drank it!

Sincerely, the Opportunist

Quoted for truth

Not the smartest idea to start sending over pics. But flirting is always a key step. And it doesn't matter where it happens: in person, the phone, god damn mufuckin myspace. If I knew how to send flirtatious smoke signals, I'd do it.

Some girls are better at flirting and love taking it to a dirty level. Some just aren't into it. And sometimes the same girl will be flirty or not depending on where and how you're talking to her.

In person, flirting may lead you to the point where she lets it slip that she thinks you're hot stuff, and two minutes later you're telling her "if we weren't in public, I'd push you up against a wall and fuck you right here." (And two minutes after that, you're in a cab.)

Sexting is when that conversation happens over text. That's all. "It's a good thing you're not here right now, or else..."

I find sexting just happens. Some girls love that kind of talk. Other girls want you to say as little as possible (and refer to say as little as possible), and you could still end up with them in your bed / on your couch / bent over your desk / etc.

Let Michael Caine explain.

http://www.metacafe.com/watch/1828658/m ... tt_ekland/