High this is my first post, I am very familiar with "the game" but have very little real-life experience to draw from and was hoping for some advice.

I recently turned 18 and have started going out clubbing. The clubs in my area are too loud to talk in so my tactic so far has been primarily dance floor game, or what I like to refer to as "find and grind". I went out last night, got drunk, danced with some girls and generally had a good time. This one girl I was dancing with, fairly average looking (although its hard to remember as I was pissed) got quite intimate and I proceeded to make out with her remembering to push and pull by being the first to stop kissing, going back to grinding again, then initiate more kissing again etc. This went on for about 5-10 mins (I think) then I went for a number close simply by handing her my phone. I got the number however I'm not sure if I then left or she did (due to the alcohol)? No words were ever exchanged during this process.

Anyway what would be the appropriate way of going about this now? I'm not really looking for a girlfriend (although probably the most effective way to get laid). I know very little about phone/ text game and would much rather text if possible. Also girls usually ask for Facebook etc. and I would rather not do this as my Facebook page is fairly empty (I only have about a 100 friends and don't even have a profile picture). This is because a mate created it for me and I couldn't be bothered to use it. This shows terrible social proof! I would imagine the only way around this would be to lie and say I don't have one?

Finally I would like ask about how to get one-night stands at a nightclub. Unfortunately being 18 and living at home I have a logistics problem as I don't have anywhere to bring girls back to. The only other option I would imagine would be to either go to her place (unlikely) or to do it in the toilets (which I am not even sure if that's possible considering their is no way you can sneak in without being seen by loads of people or the bouncers).

I'm not really into day game SPAM and therefore realistically the most likely/ only way for me to meet women SPAM would be at a nightclub. For this reason I would ideally be wanting one-night stands only as meeting up for day 2's with a girl I met a club is a bad idea for the following reason:
I have very very severe acne! This pretty much kills my self esteem and is what is responsible for holding me back for years from having success with women. Without acne I would even go as far as to say I was reasonably good looking but unfortunately acne makes me go from a 6-7 to about 2-3 (maybe less). However at a club this isn't nearly as noticeable in the dim lighting and beer goggles also improve my chances. This is why a day 2 would go terribly as they would take one look at me and realized they had made a mistake!

This is what I told another guy about his similar logistics problem. It's the second post. The tip didn't originate from me. I got it from a video by Adam Lyons, so I highly suggest trying it:

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About the acne, don't worry about it. I am bald, fat, short, hairy, pale, and ugly with acne that's even on my head, and I'm 27. You're not supposed to still have that at 27. I still get girls. It's all about game. Looks are secondary. It's only an obstacle if you make it an obstacle.

Facebook game SUCKS. Avoid it like the plague as well as texting and all forms of text based communication. Use Facebook as a way to trick her into giving you her number. Here's how. You may already know this, but if you don't try it. I use this modified number close by David DeAngelo. I ask for her email. She offers Facebook. I say OK. I have her write it down and while she's writing I tell her to write her phone number. The key is to not ask her to give it to you but to suggest her to that she should, and do it AS she is writing. I never add her, but I do call her. It's a sly dirty trick.

Day game kicks ass! Don't knock it until you've tried it. It takes balls, but that's what you get when you learn PUA... BALLS.

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just shoot her a call it won't hurt to try, but without a connection she might not remember who you are

as for getting one night stands, start with the goal, where do you want to have sex with her?

figure this out first, figure out if she is available to go there, then get her there, once you are in the location, start escalating

if you are stuck in the club and can't move her out, just get her number and look for a girl that offers the logistics

Thanks for the replies. I don't think I'm gonna bother calling her. I have exams coming up so even if I was successful it wouldn't be good timing as I find texting and arranging dates etc. to take up allot of time and effort that I don't really have right now.

As for my acne I have already noticed my acne getting better when I eat healthier and workout more. Unfortunately its not quite this simple as that. I have researched into clearing acne naturally from the inside out and there is infinite number of variables to consider. But I have nearly put the puzzle together, the only problem now is finding the time/ effort/ and money to follow such an extreme regime.

Hey, call her anyway, don't make excuses, if you don't try you don't win.

Re acne, try bikram yoga - or anything that makes you really SWEAT, I had real problems with acne, but since i eat healthier and do bikram yoga it's gotten WAY better.

Keep on going forward man, it sounds like you're onto something, just run that train.

Thanks for the advice mate your totally right about making excuses for myself. I even realized it when writing it lol. I looked up bikram yoga by the way. Although I don't do yoga, I do stretch well after a workout and finish with a 20-30 min sauna with the very intention of sweating buckets! I find instant results when doing this as my skin feels smoother and cysts are even physically less swollen than when I went in. For this reason I always make sure I always get my ass down the gym and take a sauna before a night out. I usually have one the next morning as well to help detox from the alcohol

if the acne is really bugging you try drinking lots of water, taking zinc pills (zinc helps your bodies immune system and helps improve acne a lot), if you can afford it take acutane or buy exposed acne SPAM. acutane i heard from so many friends clears up acne for life you jsut gotta talk to your doctor about it. yea some risks or whatever but everyone i know whose taken it recently is just fine. exposed is also the number 1 ance product, highest rated on the internet. I personally have had acne problems so this is what i did to fight it and its improving so much it really helps my self confidence too. Also try to eat less greasy foods.

i know this is a pickup forum but i just had acne too so i thought id share on what i did to make it a LOT better. good luck man. also if you cant afford exposed, you can buy it once for free because they have a year guarantee. So even if it does work just return it and say it didnt and you get your money back no risk. And if it does work then keep buying that shit!

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