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Make it short and sweet. Texted all week with her. Great convos and a few flirty ones here and there. We went to a spanish bar, we ate had a few drinks and i did some kino, stealth seduction and got 2 iois during that part. After we left the place we webt arm in arm and took a cab to st marks (nyc) to a hookah bar. Got my 3rd ioi in the car and kissed. After that she would not get off of me which was awesome. Asked her to bite my neck(she did, not hard enoigh tho) so i bit her back and she loved it. Kissed her a bit more, more kino, gave a few hints of taking her home. She pulled the kid on me though. She also told me ahe wasnt easy but i told her i wasnt neither lol, we ran up pointa all night on good and bad things we did. I won. She bought me the drinks. It was great just why couldnt i f-close !!! It bugs me.
I wouldn't sweat not f-closing much. Girls don't want to be seen as too easy or slutty because of our society's ridiculous sexual double standards. She obviously really likes you but there are still a myriad of reasons why she won't sleep with you on the first date, just play it cool and arrange a second meet up. Show some persistence but don't get frustrated or irritable, some girls need more comfort and rapport with you.
I've only slept with one girl on the first date before and I got the line "I'm not going to see you again am I?" and she got upset. That gives you a little insight into the thought processes of some women. There's the old mantra that nothing worth having comes easily, and that can be true with women and they certainly know this.
You could have to contend with buyer's remorse on a second date, so when you do arrange it, I would personally not imply anything overtly sexual, just something casual and fun and non-threatening. Maybe say something like "All I can promise is good conversation though" That's just my two pennies.
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