I only think this works on girls that you just want to fuck. Wouldn't this be counterproductive with a girl you see as a potential girlfriend? Also, do any of you have examples of indifference in a text?

works if she's pursuing you but if you are pursuing her forget it

Until the point she gets bored and finds someone else, that might be valid... you must always give them a little something to keep them invested, otherwise they will lose interest.

it seems you are categorizing girls into:

1) girls you have sex with

2) possible girlfriend


in my opinion, they all fit into

1) girls you want to have sex with

2) girls you don't want to have sex with

once you have sex with a girl, continue seeing her on a regular basis and the whole girlfriend thing usually takes care of it's self

indifference is sort of something you are towards something, not really some sort of tactic, you can either not care about something, or you can, totally depends on what that thing is and how much importance you place on it, when you change how you are thinking, your actions will follow, if you are needy, trying to pretend you are not needy when you are will usually backfire

the best way to adjust the problem is correct it at it's core

Flip the script, a girl who takes awhile to text you back will be on your mind, same thing if it's you taking awhile with her...I need some clarity on what you mean by indifferent here.

If I understand what you're getting at, not being emotionally invested in certain outcomes is a great way to be. Not for 'success with mad HB10s' but just generally in life.

Be Stoic. It is an admirable trait, if compatible with your personality.