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Okay negging is when you make someone feel uncomfortable and then they pursue your affection in order to validate themselves.
Negging = making her feel uncomfortable = therefore she will validate herself to you.
Do the flaws in this ridiculous statement need to be pointed out?
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Example #2 In college on of my friends through a house party and he was just teasing the fuck out of this girl. It was some mean stuff, but the shit was also funny as hell. And I was thinking she must really hate him. I left the house party turns out some people stayed. My boy and the girl stayed. It turns out in the middle of the night when everyone was sleeping she went to him and just started sucking his pecker and then showed him her putty kat and told him to fuck her. He said "No"...it goes without saying that this really made this girl feel unworthy and wanted him even more afterwards...
Did the so called 'negging' get him laid do you think (none of that which you said was defined as negging by the way), or the underlying message behind what he was doing? Think about this.
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How do you neg? What examples do you have?
This term is highly misunderstood and therefore misused in a way that makes people come off as assholes rather than funny. I suggest playful teasing instead. It's so much more effective.
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My sticking point with negging is that you pretty much have to risk being disliked or actually be disliked to attract someone with negs and that feels very uncertain. I like certainty.
If you like certainty, go for certainty. You don't have an internalized understanding of the neg to even begin using it - and I frankly don't understand the reasons for why you'd even want to understand it. Skip it and use what's certain to you. You're chasing a ghost.
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