Hey guys!
So im new here but ive been doing this for around 4 or 5 months now. Ive definitely made some huge improvements already since starting out and i feel that getting myself on here writing some damn field reports will help me a lot! Ive had some great successes and some pretty awful chode nights too unfortunately but thats all expected! Recently i got my first two lays in the game both within a couple of weeks of each other. However the past two weeks i feel im really in a bit of a trough on my pickup journey. I feel like im scrambling up a steep hill but its all mud and im slipping back down like a fuckin bitch!

But anyways, brief intro over.

Just got back from a night out with my buddy who i havent seen in a while and had a pretty sick night! ive been telling myself that i need to get much more physical from the off with girls and got proof its important from the moment i walked in. Made heavy eye contact with some really hot girl moments after getting in but completely choded out. So i punished myself and grabbed some girl and was like 'HEYY! its been like 10 years how have you been!' and she bought straight into it and started messing around pretending about what we did together and stuff. I went really hard on physical and got my arms round her and made good use of 'the claw' haha. eventually, after going big on eye contact just grabbed her and kissed her. score 1!
as the night went on i grabbed a few sets and stuff like that but nothing really hit much. which sucked. maybe i wasnt ballsy enough? i ran a bit of good dancefloor game but i felt it was a bit to friendly so i told her she was fucking hot.. she kind of smiled but then said oh i just need to ask my friend bla bla.. some bullshit so i walked off.
Then another dancefloor scenario (which i really seem to suck at!) two girls were dancing next to me and my mate so i tried to pull the hot one over like twice but it was strange.. she seemed into but kept backing off :/ ? then she puts her arms round my mate dead enthusiastically.. so i left him to it with her. i dunno if its a bit odd but often if my mates pull it almost knocks me out of state a bit and i really need to sort that shit out. especially as i live with 3 other guys at uni who are 'in the community' also and are pretty decent. often if they pull hot girls i just find myself a bit miffed.. maybe jealous!?. yes. i know. major chode behaviour but i cant help it, thats why im here!
anyway. from there on my night went pretty chode. i ran into another big group of mates and just hung out with them for the last 40 mins of the night. overall, started well.. then went crappy!

peace x

Hey guys whatsup.
just got in from one of those nights where life seems to suck. a real baddun.
i was in a half decent state when i turned up and up for the night. spoke to a few people immendiately in the club and went okay.. just general warm up shit. went onto the dancefloor and did a little bit of dancefloor game with a few girls but nothing much came of it.
From there, im not even too sure why, my state just dropped and i completely went to shit. i felt maybe i left it too long between approaches and shouldve forced my state up by having more interactions? then i started rationalising everything and started to get slight AA (like back when i started. i really really had it bad and i still get crippling AA from time to time)
My friend tried to help me out and boost my state but i felt that i had just gone past the point of no return.
finally had some little interaction with a set when getting food on the way home. went decent. maybe just because i was so far gone i became really free from outcome. but nothing special to report.

i absolutely hate nights like this, i know im so much better, but as i say, i guess im just in one of those low points in my game journey!
i need to learn how to push through crappy state and be less dependant on outcomes.

* i will be going out more after a couple of weeks. ill be back at uni. being back at home sucks its way too expensive for a student! *

peace bitches x

keep it up bromeo

everyone has their bad nights, focus on the positives

hey so i just got back from a trip to liverpool last night. had an awesome time.
arrived pretty late and turned up at a friends' house party. it was okay and introduced myself to a few girls that i hadnt met before, and just warmed up before we went into town. decent sets and pretty playful flirting with a few of them.
one girl i had met before and i know she really does have a boyfriend. but i just disregarded it and flirted big time. really played on the fact that there was clearly a lot of sexual tension between us. i got really physical with her and made innuendo out of everything. was good fun but i wasnt really taking it seriously. then before we all left she pulled me aside and spoke to me saying she wished she could fuck me haha. good fun.
got out into the club in a pretty good state. approached a few girls and didnt go too well.. i did pretty well at not taking anything to heart and ruining my state.
eventually i ran an awesome set on a blonde 8 later on. i tried this method of suddenly going direct in terms of conversation mid-way through. initially i had already been physical and heavy on eye contact. i felt the interaction was dying however, so out of the blue i told her that i thought she was really fucking hot. she smiled initially and said thankyou but then kind of stood there without saying anything. i just held eyecontact and didnt flinch. eventually she broke and moved in closer for the kiss. so i was pretty pleased with how that went.
ran few more sets flirty and had some attraction but nothing big. cool night

right so i spent the last two nights out in birmingham. and ive learnt a lotttt

went with a wing, which ive needed as most of my friends back home are pretty chod-like. so to go out with someone into the game for the first time in a while was sweeet.
i felt the first night went pretty well despite not closing, which is good. hopefully signs of becoming less outcome dependant! i ran some good sets and approached much more than normal thanks to my wing pushing me!
we had a little spot in the club where we just clawed girls in who walked past giving us a challenge to stop them and hook them. i ran good game on the few sets i did hook so all in all was a valuable night.
the second night was one of those fucking horrible nights. we had been down to london to the rsd free tour seminar which was fucking awesome! but by the time we got back to birmingham i was so damn tired. then after numerous clubs being fairly dead we went to a fucking big loud club. ran a good set in the bar area outside the main rooms and was pretty tired but just stayed chill and congruent to it. when we got in the main room however it was fucking loud so really difficult to talk to the sets, i literally got blown out of every set i approached (even though there were only around 7 or but by this point my state was lowwww and i felt even more tired. ended up calling it a night and heading back.

looking back and discussing with my wing, i feel i really need to push myself much further out of my comfort zone and keep trying to become an approach machine because i still struggle with it. all a learning curve i guess!

peace x

hey guys

been trying some new stuff to help increase my comfort zone in field. pretty fun stuff! taking fears and amplifying them and forcing yourself into bad scenarios. very funny haha

last night had a pretty good night. tried some of the comfort zone stuff and started hitting state but from a more chilled angle. felt relaxed and confident and was pretty cool. ran a few sets and started gaining momentum.
eventually i got talking to a hot girl and just chatting really chilled. a lot of teasing etc. i noticed then i was starting to get in that situation where ive just been talking and going nowhere despite being pretty physical. so i just thought fuck it and took action. grabbed her and pulled her in. she sort of hesitated and i almost saw her looking to see if i held the frame but i did and ended up kissing her. spent the next hour or so making out with this girl. it got pretty hot like pushing her up against a wall and shit. i went to try to pull her from the club but she was hesitant (i now realised i should have just taken this as a yes and taken lead on it, but i was just in my own world haha) and then made up some bullshit excuse. i got her number anyway. she said she liked me and wanted to see me again. hopefully she wont flake and it will be on. i just need to push it harder next time.
anyway im off out again tonight
peace

Sounds good, your testing your bounderies and comfort zones. Its good that you are analysing and seeing where you are going wrong, though maybe post up more of conversation so people can see how interactions are going. That way someone might pick up on something you havent thought of or you may be taking things differently to how they are.
Keep it up man, doing well!