I start gaming her at smoking area. My wing distracts her lady friend. We all go on dance floor. I isolate her make out, sexacalate, but my wing can't isn't doing well. Her friend says she wants to go to the toilet but my target stays with me. My wing is being a cockblock but I don't give a shit and blow him out. We end up in the smoking area again and her friend comes with two amogs. They have a little chat and my target asks me to go to a party to these amogs house. I play it hard to get and say that I can't but finally decide I'll go for a brief time. We get out of the club and the fucking amogs say that I can't go with them( in a pussy way = not directly to me but to the girls).

I wasn't angry then because it takes more than two dickheads that to make me angry.
We stay there in the rain for 15 minutes because my target doesn't want to go with them and without me. I just stayed there basically. And I finally told her. You "should stick together" to the girls because logistics fucked me over(I couldn't take her to mine nor we could go to hers). She took my number.

Then they wouldn't let me back in the club and I texted her.
me:"They wouldn't let me back in and my mates are still there."
her:"And what are you doing now? Staying outside in the rain? I feel horrible."
I ignore that
her:"Are you ok?"
me"Ye took a taxi home. I want to see you soon"

Today she txtd me:
her"You up to much tonight?"
me:"Going out with my mates cause I have to celebrate blabal. You wanna chip in?"
her:"Giving it a miss work took it out of me today! Will be out tmrw tho maybe see you?"
me:" If I'm not busy."


Where do you guys think I could of done better?

You got a good result...I'd just focus on building attraction right now because you don't want to slip into 'that sweet friend I left in the rain one night' category...she needs to see you as attractive.

She's seen your vulnerable, sweet, caring side, now show her that alpha animal and have fun in the process

When they invited you back to theirs, you should have just said somethin like "yeah sure, sounds fun, let's go" that way you're making yourself and that girl stick together.
She'll just see it as being friendly and she'll get defensive if the AMOGs tell you that you can't come any more.
I think your friend ruined it for you tbh. If he had sarged properly, you guys would have built enough rapport and comfort that the girls felt like they were an item with you.
Also I hope you built rapport before physical escalation? This sorta stuff only happens when you take advantage of initial attraction and escalate kino. This is because she won't feel any emotional connection to you.

Also, your last text sounds really petty. Seems like you're getting back at her for not being able to attend your plans.

Had rapport. This interaction was 2 hours long. If you don't know what Amog means look it up. And she was defensive when they told her I can't come. She was even argueing with her friend for me... If I didn't had the logicstics fucked up I'd defo pull her. I won't comment on my wing. I don't want relationship with that girl if you haven't figured out for yourself out yet. I'm only texting that cause I'm not biting into her frame. I want it to happen as soon as possible while attraction is still there. If she can't handle it i'll just move on. Not bothered.

Ahh just unfortunate times then :/
Congrats on the pickup anyway!

Thing is, after the fact analysis is easier said than done when you encounter the unknown out on field. But after the fact analysis prepares you for the next encounter when the same situation happens again.

I would say yes, you did a great job considering the randomness of the scenario.

Situational Analysis

Here are the positives from your sarge:

• 1. The 2 hour encounter with this girl and yet she is still anticipating a hangout with you in the near future is a good indicator that your skill level in building attraction is tops. Most guys get blown off in the first 3 minutes and they don't even get a call.
  
  2. Whatever you did, she is still horny and is very much frustrated you didn't fuck her due to the AMOGs. Frustration attraction, according to Dr. Helen Fisher, intensifies the feelings. Expect wild sex on the second date.

What You Need to Do

Call her and bang her brains out. If she doesn't flake (I'm 80% sure she's still horny as fuck with you she will not flake.), then you're good. I say only 80% sure since I didn't see how you sarged her.

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Ok so I finally closed this girl and I'm gonna give you the update which happens to be really unfortunate at the end for me so I'm seeking your help again.

This girl has stopped texting me for a week or so after my last text. I thought I screwed so I send her another text then another one in a few days but no reply. Then when I though everything's over and was out partying. I got this text from her saying sorry and that her phone was broken that's why she haven't been replying.

Fast forward to our second meeting in the same club as before. I was going out with my mates so texted her and turns out she'll be there too. I found her and basically stayed with her all night again. rapport and escalation basically I don't even remember. The thing was that she was with far too many friends so I couldn't just take her with me nor go with her. So we set up a date.

On the date in the morning I'm in the toilet and about to send her my #1 message to avoid flakes. And then when I'm just about to do so I dropped my phone in the toilet. Really unlucky cause as you suggest she didn't turn up at the date. So when I came back my phone was dried and swiched it on seen 2 messages from her asking if we're still on for today. Called her and told her what happened which she didn't believe but things were ok with the difference that from that moment on she was in control. Everytime I'd be the one sending the first message. I'd be the one wanting to meet up and stuff. The thing is she likes leaders so I was ok with me asking and being needy and clingy.

Last week I sent her this message if she wants a second try on a date before I went to work. After work I went out kissed like maybe 6 girls but wasn't gaming them well enough so couldn't close them. Went home and at 4 in the morning I get this text from her saying "okay ;]". So I called her and we arrange to meet up then and there. Just general chat and we went back to mine and we had sex.

Now I think I did great in bed. Had roleplay and dry humped on her. Made sure she was relaxed gave fingered her and gave her a vaginal orgasm then licked her and gave her a clitorous we had sex and gave her another vaginal orgasm and then licked her more and then finally I came also.

I discussed the texts with her and she said that usually she doesn't like texting so I should just call her and if she doesn't see it she'll just call back. I slept for 3-4 hours and when I woke up I started cuddling and escalate on her but we didn't do anything I could say she liked it though. She hadn't slept cause she had a little hangover and I sent her home cause we were both working later on in the day.

I sent her a txt saying that she should text me back when she's home. She didn't but texted me later saying that she missed work and everything. I called her and that call was rubbish I just didn't know what i was saying. Chatting bullshit really.

Then I texted her saying I have no work this monday and asking what was she doing? She never texted back I called her the next day but she never answered nor called back.

It's really confusing for me cause we had really deep report, I built many emotional connections and I think the sex was better than average...

What do you guys think I should do?