So I met this girl at one of the dorm parties, and she would sometimes hang out in our dorm because her friend lives here. I started to hang out with her a bit more, went out with her, her friend plus my buddy to lunch(my buddy's taken though so it wasn't a double date :S). So she invited me to an end of the year party where she wants to drink with me, that night was also the night a lot of my friends are going back home or going to different countries. We did some pot and watched a movie and I got back at around 2. By then a lot of random people I've never met were there. I was really out of it and really tired, but I think the real reason I didn't stick around was because I felt intimidated as fuck now that there's a bunch of random dudes I don't know there. Also, there's this guy that was definitely better looking than me sitting beside the girl and was talking to her. She texted me early morning asking how my night was, I said shitty that I didn't get to hang out with her, she said haha we can talk tomorrow. The next morning another one of my buddy was leaving early so I decided to go have a drink with him. I wasn't carrying my cell phone at the time and I missed about 3 texts asking where I was, and finally saying she was leaving. Now, she lives in the same city as me, like 30min commute to get there. I'm going to stop being a lil bitch and call her and set up a date where we can just hang out without all her friends there, the problem is I think she's a bit mad at me for "ditching her". What should I say to her when i call?

FUCK IT I couldn't wait so I just called her, she didn't seem amused and definitely sounded surprised that I didn't text her like usual, oh well I read somewhere that PUAs call, bitches text so I was like fuck it I'll call
anyways:
She: hi?
Me: it's me
Me: hey i was wondering r u free anytime next week,? maybe we can just hang out or catch a movie
She: ya sure?
Me: cuz i was just so sad I didnt get to see u leave the other day u know
She: oh haha ya sure just text me next week im not sure what im doing
Me: oh ok.. um.. o wat u doing now?
She: oh just watching a tv show
Me: oh.. um .. ya thats a great show
She: ya haha
Me: ok alrgiht ill let u go back to the show then, see u later i guess?

So, is this a success? I had bitch butterflies real bad and I was being pretty quiet, she didn't sound amused at all and a bit confused kinda like I was bothering her from watching TV, can someone analyze this and let me know if i fucked up?
I'm usually a lazy person where I don't chase girls and i would not reply to girls texts, sometimes I'm worried I might be gay or something, but ya I think I really like this gal and I'm scared I really fucked something up here

It sounds to me like she's more of a big deal to you than you are to her currently, do you think that might be the case?

My general advice here would be to keep tons of options open with girls, don't catch feelings over this one chick too bad. And watching movies is a bad idea for a date generally, kinda cliche and no chance to game.

At first she would text me to go study together, and general hang out shit, but I think I'm starting to really like her. So yeah, you're right she definitely is a big deal to me. Like I said earlier, I'm a fucked up person, I've only had 1 girlfriend in my life so far, I'm just really picky or something, I had girls constantly want to do something where I would blow them off. We live 40min away from each other, and I don't know anything that we can do that's fairly close to both of us. I was hoping for a restaurant first then movies, what are your recommendations for first date, that is if she even says yes?

How do you think this girl feels about you though? I can tell she's a big deal to you.

Dinner and a movie is like the ultimate cliche date, if you do that, it will sort of frame your relationship along very conventional lines.

Without knowing the girl it's hard to give you a specific day 2 idea but generally a situation which is fun/positive and allows you to DHV is a good idea. If she's into music, maybe go see a show. If she's into art, an exhibition. Keep in mind you need to make it something you'll either enjoy or something which gives you the chance to come across as interesting and attractive.

Man... i really do not like this situation ^^
I feel like she is actually playing with you. She probably has some interests at the moment.. but she's totally in control and i also gt the feeling she will los it in time.

Stuff like:
"my night was shitty cause i didn't get to spend time with you"

can be a damn killer in seduction.. well not killer.. more a suicide. a probably better answer would have been:

"GREAT! it was so much fun.. i've drank with these guys i just met.. and talked about the most amazing subject ever.. you would never imagine what it is... guess? we've talked hours about how snails reproduct ( ). then this chick came by completely drunk and tried to kiss all of us.. only that when she went for the kiss on my new pal she felt bad and had to escape to the bathroom.. ahaha.. and what about yours?"
( ok i made it up...best thing ever would be to actually... HAVE FUN during the evening so you can tell about real stuff )

see my point?

good thing would be to make her WANT to go out with you... not only to let her know YOU want to go out with her.

Don't get me wrong tho.. she probably has some interest in you at this point ( not that awesome interest but some.. she prob does ), but there are very high chances of:

- Her interest fading
- Relationghip going shitty if you manage to get into it.

Of course.. just my personal ideas and i could be wrong ^^

hope that helped.

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Thanks guys great advices, I'm gonna hang out with her gonna come up with some place better and be more direct.