Okay I put myself in a weird place and was hoping someone had a plan of action to get me where I want to be.

My roommate/best friend and I met these two girls out two weeks ago. They're both roommates, also they're cousins/bestfriends. So long story short I'm seeing/sleeping with the girl he wants and he's with the girl I want...

How do we convince them to swap? Because honestly I'm really not into mine and he really is... and I'm really into the other chick. Although my girl is freaking scary into me, and doesn't show any ioi's to my roommate. This chick is so into me I'm afraid she's going to go stalker status... she already joined my gym and works out when I do, call's texts all the time like up my butt!

I'll also share this, they're both in weird places. My girl is recently widowed. Husband blew his brains out in January. Her roommate is recently divorced by a cheating military guy. Both are broken and not girlfriend material.

Is it possible to make the swap?

Wow. It's painfully obvious you live in Arkansas.

My advice would be to run - and I mean RUN. I see no possible way that this situation can end in anything but tears.

Your boy,
870

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Yeah, that's my thinking unless I can pull off a switch. I'll be honest though, they're cool chicks. both have their lives squared away, not crack heads, just have previous relationship issues.

Yes, run. Get out of that situation. Plus I find it disturbing that you wanna trade women like objects.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn

Like I said I got myself into this "mess"... we were hanging out my chick kinda latched onto me so I went with it. Then the longer we're all together the more I like the other one. The same story goes for him. He was initially attracted to my chick more, but like I said she instantly attached herself too me. I'm not trying to hurt them, which is why I included the stuff about them being broken women.

this reminds me of an interesting scenario on the Young and the Restless soap several years ago; 2 couples who were best friends. Each side of the couple was interested in the opposite and they built it up for years. So the writer of the show had a mysterious postal mail invitation sent to each of the 4 to show up at the "Colonaid" room, Which was a popular fancy bar/restaurant/hotel. Both couples went, ate /drank together, and had fun. Then at the end, the richest heir (victoria tom), most popular of the group says to the group at the end of the show"ok we need to decide if we all want to stay married to each other or else". B/c no one else in the group had the courage to say it.

to answer your ever so complicated question; don't focus too much on one woman or one situation. As 870 suggested, when in doubt, run away.