I am looking for daygames with girls around 19-21. Where should I try to sarge if I to PU girls that somewhat fall into what I am looking for in a girlfriend? College is a good place, but it takes time, first friendship then to relationship.

Things I am looking for in a girlfriend:
• Simple
• Funny
• Likes to read, watch movies, have fun
• Well communicative
• Independent
• Helpful to others
• Good heart
• Generous
• Likes me for who I am
• Loves me back
• Comes back to me
• Wants to hang out with me
• Soft
• Down to earth

With that list in mind, your best bet is school campus, malls, and Starbucks. But when picking up girls don't ever think of it as she might be my girlfriend but think of it as I'm just here to have fun, and we go from there.

You are right, I won't be thinking that at all. Just meeting girls in general and see how it goes. But that's what I am looking for in a girl. Love to have a girl like that in my life.

I've been wanting to point this out to you during your previous threads. Now that it seems that this is your mindset. Let's correct it.

Friendship then to relationship is the least efficient of the sarging processes. There are many other ways to get to a relationship. Here are some:

• 1. Enemies then to a relationship.
  2. Sex buddies then to a relationship.
  3. Total Strangers to Same Day Sex or Same Night Lay and then to a relationship.

Item no. 2 is the most efficient process of them all, followed by no. 3, then no. 1 and last, friendship-relationship.

As for the qualities that you're looking for, you'll only get to know majority of these once you're in a relationship with a girl or several girls. Until then, what you're facing is a person's public mask. You can only see a person's private self (the real person) after some intimacy with that person. Intimacy with the opposite sex usually starts after sex.

In simple terms, the ultimate evidence of the pudding is in the eating.

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Hellhound, I really appreciate your concern to correct my point of view here. I understnad that relationship begins after sexual intercourse, but given my situation here, I cannot sarge girls in classes, and college clubs. Its very awkward. For that to happen, I have to know her and vice versa. But, I am going out to play daygames in malls, concerts, cofee shops, and in parks. So, maybe if I can sarge and n-close some girls, then have a sexual relationship here, but it is very unlikely to find a girl in class and get her number and start hitting on her. What do you think about class and college club sarging. I have about 5-6 sets in one of the club I am in, and hopefully more will come soon.

Some sarging principles are contextual. They may not apply to an individual's situation or condition. But most sarging principles are universal.

When I studied in the university, I had a girlfriend and many guys did have girlfriends. Where do you think the sarges took place? Sarges started in class.

You've said yourself that some guys (not so good looking even) in your campus have girlfriends while you don't have one. In my case, I've seen male professors sarge their students right in front of class. I've also seen a few female professors having relationships with their students. The sarges are everywhere on campus: in class, at the canteen, in hallways, at the sunken garden, in the libraries, at the school church-- even near the comfort rooms.

Since the mall is too far away from your place, you can only sarge once a month. The best bet in university/college sarging is still right there inside the class. You have sarging opportunities everyday just right about where you are.

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