i am a quiet slightly shy 17 year old male. i am confident and dont mind the way i look but still dont know how to go about attracting women. i think this is due to that i am introverted (more of a thinker than social person) and not very outgoing. i dont want to change who i am but would like to improve myself and being able to talk, flirt and pick up women and this is a huge goal for me. it seems to me that women like outgoing guys who talk alot. by the way i am confident and have good self esteem but need to learn how to get women being the naturally quiet reserved person i am and socialising and chatting to women doesnt come natural to me. Any help would be appreciated. Cheers.

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Welcome to the forum mate.

Best advice I can give you, first up, is to get a hold of some David DeAngelo stuff. It will explain in a very basic way the links between social dynamics and how you can engage people!

It's very basic but a good starting place.

PM me if you have questions.

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AFC turning into a PUA.

hey man

you sound similar to me at your age and now I have come along way with females. It is a skill set like any other imo and it took me a good couple of years, maybe longer to get to a level where I could sleep with good looking women on a regular basis.

I literally read snippets of info on here and took what i thought was good for my style. Then I practiced and practiced by starting off on sub par looking girls just so I knew I was getting sex. This slowly built up my skills and confidence so i moved up with hotter women naturally.

i always had a very self critical mentality and i believe this helped me get to where i am today, as i was always reflecting on where things had gone wrong in any social setting being infront of women or men. Everytime I would depict the error or part where it went wrong then i would make sure I was self conscious of that in future. I even would think back on scenarios where I had been talking infront of males and if i had ever felt like a dick or out done by someone else, then I would try to isolate what went wrong then and make sure i didn't repeat any mistake. sometimes i would and maybe still do but now i have the confidence, reputation and respect from peers that i can easily bounce right back from it without even flinching.

it takes time but easily done just like any skill set as i said...

Good luck man