This is one of the most accepted yet debated dogmas ever. Everybody knows that it is true and yet everybody says that taste in men has nothing to do with HB levels.

Now lets look at the reasoning: Ugly girls = less opportunities = a broader acceptance of partners.

Hmm, yes, unless it is close to closing time and everyone including that pretty guy get desperate. The UG will still take the best she can get and it might not be you.

More reasoning: Taste in men isnt based on her own prettiness, she may go for anyone she likes. True but social pressure is a factor, make sure she is alone then. Plus if she is used to sleping with hot guys, I dont think she will get totally desperate in one single night of boyfried-out-of-town that she will go for the scrawny little loser she finds in the corner of the bar.

All of that logical reasoning but still we arent even close to what happens when she decides on a partner. All for nothing.

So maybe we ourselves have something to do with it?

Maybe our beliefs change something. Maybe this is my interpretation.


You consider yourself a 5 and you walk up to a 10 (J Lo), shes rich and beautiful and has a million guys surrounding her. Now your head says something like: Hmmm, why would she even bother talking to me, she is out of my league. And what happend to your confidence? It drops. You get nervous and intimidated.

You consider yourself a 5 and walk up to a 2 (Jabba the Hutt and Gollums Daughter). She is ugly, fat and stands alone, you pump yourself full of viagra and walk up to her. Now your head says something like: OMG, how can I sink that low, lets hope nobody finds out, Ill give her a mercyfuck, lets just pretend that she is someone else and that I didnt see her tail. What happens to your confidence? It maxes out, there is no chance in hell that you can fail and frankly, deep down inside you wish you will. So no nervousness at all, the outcome is not important to you.

If you go for someone under your own "imagined level" you will have a higher confidence (yes that is inner game if you prefer the term) but if you go for someone over your level, they have the upper hand and thus they are in the dominance position.

Now imagine that you are a 10 (Johnny Depp), even a 9 will be easy because you have the upper hand.

Here comes the point. Who says you arent a 10? Who decides that? You? Someone else? Could it be that your number comes from a lot of different sources?

Looks mixed with confidence mixed with personal taste.

Seems reasonable doesnt it?

So fix your looks, get a new outfit, that helps a lot. Just changing your style can increase your looks by quite a few points.

Confidence, this is the difficult one, you will have to do some inner game work man. There is no easy way to build it.

Personal taste. Referring to the girls personal taste. Have you ever heard two girls disagreeing with each other because one of them things a guy is super hot and the other one say that he is ugly. Now dont get me wrong but ugly here means a 5 and super hot means an 8. Stil that is a huge difference. I constantly find myself attracted to girls who arent "clasically beautiful" and less interested in girls who are "hot". Instead I favour girls with that spark, that mentality, that would look great in leather pants with me holding her leash. See what I mean?



In all of these factors, there is a variation. Personal taste varies a few points based on the eye of the beholder, confidence varies a few points depending on your situation and your looks vary based on how well you groomed or if you forgot to shave.

Basically, you cannot predict what number a girl is gonna give you. It will be whatever number you think you deserve plus minus quite a few points. And a lot of that is under your control. Namely, the number you think you deserve. Confidence.

In my example, the HB2 may well consider you a 1 and reject you because her taste isnt in your favour. And the HB10 may like you because you have that exact tattoo that she always wanted. You cant know. I try to take whatever number I think I deserve and then add all the pluses that I could possibly have. That will max my confidence out as well. And then I behave like that regardless of who I am talking to.

It cant hurt.

i disagree.

the hotter women are easier to convince than the ugly ones. ugly women have so many more complexes. they will always think you are using them "until he scores a better-looking one". traditional shit tests turn into mega-shit tests with them. even worse are women that used to be HB 8 or 9 and partied too hard or got old, oh shit!

they will test you all the more, and try to get you to convince them all the more that she is not "number 2". you dig?

now that being said, it is easier for most men to pick-up an ugly one because they are relaxed. conversely, more tense in front of HB7+ and try harder. also, answers the point about desperate when the club is closing ("desperate" being the key word here).

with uglies, you have a "i don't give a fuck, you are lucky to be talking to me" through and through attitude, and it's so genuine that they buy it. likewise, the same attitude would, in my opinion, make it as easy to score with HB7+. this also ties in with the theory that exactly when you have this gf that you want to stay loyal to (i bet we all felt this), you get all these offers for meaningless sex from strangers that are very attractive.

i would even go so far as to saying that this is what "game" is all about - getting the hottest women to feel like the ugly one, that needs to serve you and prove to you that they are worth your time. and treating the ugly ones so good that they loose their attraction to you and hand you over to their hot friends, who in turn get jealous of all the attention you are giving the ugly girl and jumps you like a hungry wolf.

a club full of ugly chicks, the least ugly one will look hotter to you than if she stood next to HB9's. that's it. it's einstein's relativity theory in practice.

in university, one of my professors used to tell the joke, "so, how's your wife". "it depends on who you compare her to". voila.

obviously, i am no expert on this, but it's basic psychology. i am working on perfecting this and although i see results already, i know once i have this down it will work perfectly.

It doesnt matter if 10s exist or not. Just input 9 or 8 or whatever you think is too high for you.

Insecure women can be difficult but they can also be easy. It all depends on what vibe you give off. If you give off the safe vibe, they will flock to you. If you give off the dangerous vibe they will run. And the other way around for other women.