So this is a bit of a sticking point with me. I haven't been able to really escalate with girls. When I do it's usually on accident. Here's an example.

There's this extremely cute girl in one of classes. So I casually start up a conversation with her and it goes really well. She turned out to be very easy to talk with. In trying to game this girl I found out that I really liked her, and she was hilarious.

The next class I offered to drive her home after class. She agreed, once we got to my car I told her that I had been planning to get something to eat after class. I asked if she wanted to join me. Again she agreed. Then I suddenly "remember" that I left my wallet at home. So we went back to my place. She came up and looked around the apartment. I quickly got my wallet and ushered her out. Everything went according to plan and we had a nice long easy going conversation before I took her home.

That was the last time I've seen her out of the class room. We've tried seeing each other since then, she's invited me out twice but something always comes up.

Here's where I need help on. She's made comments, a few of them and it seemed as though she was fishing for a compliment. She would say things like, "I think I looked prettier freshman year" then show me pictures... I made a joke out of it and got a nice health laugh as a response, but really didn't know how to respond.

She has made other such comments. For instance the last class we had was completely pointless, she said, "Did you just come to this class to see me?" She also has initiated kino.

I don't know where to go from here, I feel like she's waiting for me to make some kind of move, but I don't know how to convey my intentions.

How do I escalate this? How do I express my intentions? How do I let her know I'm really interested in her?

...First off, once you've gotten the girl back to your apartment, no "plan" should involve getting her out as quickly as possible. Not sure what you were trying to accomplish there.

You gotta hang out with her outside class, and escalate physically. Google Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder. It fits with any sort of conversation, its just a good way to progress physically to the point where the kiss is way less awkward.

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These hos ain't loyal

y did u usher her out so quickly. you should have been like change of plans how bout we cook something. thats in the past now tho. make plans with a few freinds to go clubing bar hoping shit even bowling works then tell her me and a few freinds are going out it would be great if u came

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dont chase, replace

I dont know what you did. But throw all those random curveballs..."im hungry" and "i forgot my wallet" and she went along that shows she trust you. I mean what are you trying to escalate to?

Check out the link in my sig called "Escalation Guide"

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