Ok I know most guys like this, but I find it a turn off. I don't mind subtle comments but not "take out your fuckin cock and stick it in me" kinda comments from a chick. And then on top of that, she seems to get turned on by saying 'this is so wrong', can't believe I'm sleeping with you already etc etc. I think there is some guilt, dirty girl complex she has, but she's a hb9 and sexy in every way except this weird dirty/guilty talk she does. How do you guys reckon I get her to stop it without losing the sex with her? Call me a puritan, but I'm not keen on chicks talking like sailors during sex.

Advice?

Let her know what turns you on. I like it when you say..."blah blah blah" etc. It's the same way it is for anything with a woman. You don't point out the problem, you guide her to the solution. Think of it like this...if your girlfriend is putting on the pounds, you might suggest she come with you to the gym to spend time together (of course this means YOU have to go to the gym, too). It's safer and isn't cruel. Her dirty talk is a part of who she is, so mold her. Just slowly urge her to change things. Does that make sense?