Hi, I am new to the game.
The reason why I have joined this forum is because I bought the book 'the game' which I'm sure you are all familiar with. This isn't the only reason for which I have joined, the other reason is because I am 19 year old virgin and I am in desperate need to change that. I am a good looking kid (so I've been told) but I look far younger than 19. My confidence is only high once I drink and when I'm one on one with a girl (sober), I over think things and therefore don't know when to kiss a girl let alone hit third base. (reason why I'm a V). In recent times I have been close to girls and have got hook ups and so on, however, I still can't crack the code as to how to get a fucking root. When I go out with my mates I am always the first to dance with girls and be out there but that's where it ends. Last night I went out with confidence and swag, I became the centre of attention and (without talking myself up) every girl in the club knew who I was and knew that this kid was something. I did get a hook up but I'm still boring to talk to and don't have any good ice breakers (which I'm working on). Any way if any pro PUA's can help me out with tips and tricks that will be helpful. I am committed to learn this art and also share experiences that I hopefully have!

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Poonslay

Hey dude!
First of all,hello and welcome to the underground PUA community. And second, congrats on manning up enough to admit that you've got a problem and to seek help for it. Other than that, I'd like to say 'welcome to the community' bro!


Ok. There are lots of pickup gurus out there and only a few give out the straight shit. So first of all,choose carefully. And don't be afraid to experiment. But never be that dude who is stuck in one place. Then you'll just be another cocksucker for one of the 'gurus'. Experiment and find your own style. And when you do get what works, stick with and improve it. Me, I personally prefer cold approach day game.


Second, it's just a game bro. Play and learn. And don't be afraid of screwing up. I'm going through that stage myself. It's all about just doing it!


There are some threads on AA around here and the sort. So anything you want, you'll be able to get. Daygame,nightgame,fb game, myspace game,phone game, text game...
Anything you want. So feel free to browse along.

The threads mentioned at the start of the newbie page are great. Read them on the first chance you get.


And dude on a more personal note, the people around here can and will not read your mind.. Find a question you want answered and just balls out say it.

Thanks Im looking forward to learning more and practicing it!!

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Poonslay

Relax man. If girls are attracted to you and they talk to you all you need to do is talk to them more get them alone and start going for the gold. The opportunities are probably there you just are not taking the shot. Take the shot.

As far as confidence, you need a rountine. A routine that you stick to everyday that builds your confidence. People hate on religion but what you got to understand is the ritual builds faith. Similarly, you need your own ritual of (reading paper, getting dressed, cleaning up, working out, ect... to get your confidence up and consistently up). YOu dont want to be anything if you can;t be it consistently.

As far as, having something to say...you can think of stories before hand. SO thats easy. But, "when you are talking you ain't learning." You want to listen to the girl, think about what she likes and dislikes, what she wants and what she is afraid of then you need to act accordingly.

Yeah I get ya.
My open are a 6/10
Mid game 5/10
And closes are like a 3/10

It starts off well but then disintegrates to nothing in the end.
Wil take advice and put it to action! Thanks heaps.

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Poonslay

Welcome dude!

I am also fairly new to game, started about 1 year ago, learning C&F from Deangelo, trying out all the teasing girls stuff, slowly moved on towards getting numbers, emails, following up, etc.

Got a lot of numbers, and finally one of them latched on to my text baiting.

Great to feel that a girl is chasing me. I just played it cool, put some limits for her, etc. (No, your friends cannot join our first date, ha ha ha). Not enough attraction to close her on the first two dates, so I just enjoyed the slowness of things, savouring the honey, lifting her up from time to time to relieve the blue balls ha ha ha, and finally the 3rd date we end up at her place.

Just perfect, she is totally up for being fuck-buddies, and I am free to keep meeting new chicks.

So just keep at it my friend, patience, intent with freedom from outcome, and eventually you will get where you want to be.